Is this too mean? v. Neg

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  1. sapient

    sapient New Member

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    I told a friend of a girl that I was trying to game, "don't flatter yourself hun", after she took my being nice to her as me wanting her. She had said something to the tune of how I couldn't resist her, when in fact, I definitely didn't want her. She definitely proceeded to hate me for a while before I told her that I'm usually a lovable asshole, but sometimes mess up the lovable part, and that I didn't mean to hurt her feelings, and to please stop hating. Afterwards all was well, and the girl I was going for asked to see me again.

    In the context of a girl being too forward, to the point of being out of line (she actually grabbed my junk at one point), is "don't flatter yourself" a little too mean? :rofl:
     
  2. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Not at all. I love bringing cocky people back down to reality like that :mamoru:
     
  3. JustaMeThang

    JustaMeThang New Member

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    :bigthumb: my thoughts exactly
     
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    PlutoBHG New Member

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    good job....thin line between cockiness and confidence
     
  5. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    Wow! Good job dduuude, honestly I could care less about what you did and said, why on earth are you starting a thread about this? affirmation again? GOOD BOY! YEAH look wow you're confident and cocky! oh my GOD you're a quantified pick up artist now boy!

    Get a life you geek, the vag is honestly turning to garbage as of late with this nonsense.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: I said that once to a real douche bag that thought he was god's gift. I could see the sort of shock and annoyance in his face. However, I didn't grab his crotch! :eek3:
     
  7. teep

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    :bigthumb: well played
     
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    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    not at all.
     
  9. Exiled

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    This girl I knew did that same thing.. then she slapped the guy when he said that.. I just kind've went "Holy shit what the fuck"


    then literally in front of everyone he says "You want to act like a dude, i'll treat you like one" he nailed her and broke her jaw.
     
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    serious? ..... :rofl:

    like the first scene in the movie 'way of the gun'
    hahaha
     
  11. Exiled

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    Yeah, dead serious.. my jaw dropped (no pun intended)


    I was happy he did it, the girl thought she was invincible and no guy would touch her...
     
  12. MattThom01

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    Another thread where I wonder "why does it matter?" Don't ask us. If you want to judge your actions, look at the results. In this case, it couldn't have been too if she didn't throw a fit.

    And you have every right to verbally put someone in their place if they are being too forward/annoying.
     
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    He did the right thing.
     
  14. Exiled

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    Yeah he did I think, now she'll be less of a cunt
     
  15. MattThom01

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    I disagree. Not because the person in question was a girl, but because the solution to the problem was to punch her in the face.

    Some girl is stupid enough to slap you, you either ignore her completely, or take her arm, and firmly tell her while still being calm: "You do not slap me. If you have a problem with something I say, you talk to me like an adult woman, not hit me like a little girl".

    Punching someone in the face for a slap is a good way to get assault charges.

    If that guy had been me, I would have given her the "are you seriously fucking trying to pull that shit with me?" look, and ignored her completely for the rest of the time.
     
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    No and the more you start to do it the more it seems like the bigger dick you are the more that come back. But again there is a line that you gotta flirt with and find.
     
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    You don't know her demosnat, she's a friend of a girl you've never met. Thanks for the replies though guys, I made this post while drunk and I was half convinced I was being out of line and could have come up with something less stinging.
     
  19. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    most girls say shit like this.

    it's part of the chasing frame you are enamored of,

    what "works" for girls (i.e., doesn't have any effect positive or negative because the guy is looking at your tits not listening to your mouth) doesn't translate to guys
     
  20. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    in my limited experience, taking the c & f approach is fine, but take the p & c approach is probably better.

    playful/confident over cocky/funny.

    c & f usually makes girls feel like they have to challenge you which can generate one kind of attraction, but i think a more "natural" attraction is preferable to c & f.

    one response would be to play UP the niceness and imitate the super-super-nice guy who wants poon in a playful way that is joking/teasing. plus you can touch her while you do it which ironically moves you closer to your target
     
  21. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    o, and this is not a "neg". this is teasing

    a neg would be:
    "wow, your eyes are so blue, and sleepy"

    anything that turns the other person inwards can be advantageous, though. it doesn't have to be negative, per se:
    "your hair is so organized"
     
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    She is just as guilty of assault.
     
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    I agree.

    They both got one hit in... one just made it count more. :hsugh:
     
  24. Funklordtoejam

    Funklordtoejam New Member

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    That's some funny stuff. Not out of line at all.

    Also, I need to whoop your ass in SSB Brawl. :mamoru:
     
  25. sapient

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    Glad you think it's funny, I sure did. :rofl: Also, you have no idea how much your ass is going to get kicked by King Dedede.
     

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