Recently my dad just moved back to Laos to live with his new wife, leaving me and my mom behind. This has been the third time or fourth time that hes done this and everytime somehow he racks up alot of debt. We forclosed our house recently too and had to move twice. So my mom has gotten fed up and we both moved away from him since he went back this fourth time. She really needed to leave the first time but she loved him, and still she becomes upset every so often. Yet she still is such a great mom and is always happy and she always "Mothers" me and treats me as a kid but i don't want that anymore I wanna take responsibility and start helping my mom out with bills the apartment everything. But it's a real bitch...i'm going through jobs now trying to get more money and i'm trying to go through the local CC for criminal justice or IT programming. I mean seeing her sad kinda fucks me up too and I hate living like this, is there a way to make it easier?