Is this stupid?

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  1. cgarcia2182

    cgarcia2182 New Member

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    27 yr old female here whose 25 yr old male boyfriend broke up with- TWICE. The 1st time it was a shock and he ended up calling me a couple of days later. We got back together within days. Before we got back together i told him that the random business of dumping me and wanting me back is a definite no- no. Fast forward a yr. later & he dumps me again. Day after he dumped me he sent me a text saying that "He'll always love me and doesn't want me out of his life". A day after that confusing text, i called him and we agreed to meet up & talk. Over dinner we talked about EVERYTHING. Thing is, when we were together we wouldn't really talk, which is what brought us to the present situation. Anyhow, after the dinner he started texting me like normal as if we never broke up. Quickly i put an end to it b/c we both agreed that if we wanted to make it work again we needed to get to know each other. Plus i didn't want to be the stupid girl that is kinda with someone. So i put an end to the texting by telling him over the phone that i needed my space b/c i was still severly hurt over the 2nd break-up. I told him that i would contact him in a month, just so i can use the month to spend time with myself and reflect & forgive. Is this stupid?
     
  2. Viper

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    The only stupid thing would be contacting him in a month. :dunno:

    3 billion guys on the planet. He's not right for you. Move on.
     
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    well said.
     
  4. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    no. at least you gave him a timeline.
     
  5. Franco

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    You are older than him? Doesnt work.
     
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    I tend to give people a second chance. But a third? :rofl:
     
  7. Sirian

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    Don't ever set timelines in relationships, it just gives you/them false hope. "Ok, I just have to make it this month then it will all be back to normal!" You have to listen to your heart and figure out when is the right time to try to get back together, or realize that it is not meant to be.
     
  8. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    wonder if he just wanted to fuck some other chick during that time you were broken up
     
  9. wolfskymoon

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    Is he sadistic? looks like he dumps you to boycott something dear to him, except he can't do it for more than afew days. I don't see how it takes a whole month to know someone but w/e up to you.
     
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    this

    and a month by yourself does nothing. either you're in it, or you're not.
     
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    lol what?
     
  12. Franco

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    "27 yr old female here whose 25 yr old male boyfriend broke up with- TWICE." :ugh:

    especially in that age. he is 25 ffs, he wants to fuck 20 year olds. he will fuck 27 year olds when he is 40. now he wants to bang 20 year olds, so he gives you the boot to free himself. then he doesnt gey any pussy so he comes back for the old one. :mamoru:
     
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    3rd will become a 4th, and so on. Sounds like things may not chance with him. :dunno:
     
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    Arkaybee New Member

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    You know the saying "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me"

    Has a lot to do with this story
     
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    I'm pretty sure the saying is "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me ..... ........ you can't get fooled again!"
     
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    lol wut? dating older broads=fail?
     
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    fool me once...shame on you

    fool me twice...shame on me

    fool me thrice? :dunno:
     
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    No, man, you fucked it up.

    It's:

    "Fool me once....shame....on yew. Fool me...can't get fooled again."
     
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    What the hell? :rofl: It's not like 27 year olds have saggy tits or anything. They pretty much have the same body as a 20 year old. She's only 2 years older than him. It's not much of a difference or big deal.



    But...

    I was thinking this.
     
  21. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    25yrs old and he doesn't know what he wants??? F him.

    You're 27yrs old. Do you really have the time & patience to play with that cockroach?

    He obviously doesn't know what he wants and/or he's playing games with you to see what you do.

    Take the month to reflect on yourself and the previous relationship and think about other things besides that numbskull and then go out find yourself a REAL man.
     
  22. Guz200sx

    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    Your AV disgusts me

    Thats all.
     
  23. Kyoko

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    Let me get this straight. You went out for a YEAR and yet you say you only need a MONTH to resolve your issues? And in the year that you were together you only talked seriously, once, and only when your relationship fizzled out?

    Take a year off, get to know yourself, then find a new dude who isn't fucked up.
     
  24. Franco

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    You didnt know this? :ugh2:
     
  25. Franco

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    and you where thinking that because it is a natural selection which has made men to activly seek out younger pussy

    27 isnt saggy, so notting really wrong with hittin it if your younger. but thats about hit, hit and run. hit and run.
     

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