Is this shady or legit? Vag's opinion pleez

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  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    My friend was supposed to go over to his GF's today, but instead he's going out drinking with me.

    Why?

    Because his gf of one year sent him this text today after work:

    "I don't feel well. I'm goin 2 bed early. Dont mean 2 cancel our plans, but i dont feel like being around anyone tonite."

    They spend a lot of time together, and she randomly pulled this tonight. I think it's BS. I don't wanna tell him that and make him freak out, cuz he's just kinda like "meh, whatever."

    I've learned from the Vag gurus that the cancelling of plans is shady, and when it's done at the last minute it's disrespectful.

    What do you think?
     
  2. Abomb

    Abomb New Member

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    sounds shady
     
  3. kdizzle59

    kdizzle59 New Member

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    well if she all of s udden just got sick, a little weird, if there have been signs then it could be legit
     
  4. hi2u2

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    it happens. sometimes im in a really really bad mood and cant shake it and dont want to spoil everyone elses plans.

    but your friend could surprise her with ckn noodle soup. and see if shes home or not
     
  5. PocoDiablo

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    Sounds shady... I'd just drive by and see if her car was there. If it was, I'd check for activity inside.

    If it's not there or there's clearly no one home ... :noes:

    I don't trust anyone, personally.
     
  6. Falconer

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    lol maybe i'll tell him we should take a drive by on the way to the bar. Isn't that borderline stalkerish?
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    lol, what is wrong with you people? I've done that before to my boyfriend. When I've had a REALLY shitty day at work or school I always want to be alone and not bring my bad mood onto him.

    Just mind your own business first of all, and have fun with your friend. Don't freak him out seeing as how you don't even know the whole situation.
     
  8. Tiberium

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    I have days where I don't want to talk to ANYONE...even if nothing is wrong. But since this is OT...that bitch is airtight right now...with a cock in every hole and each hand.
     
  9. kdizzle59

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    take a chicken noodle soup at hand, go by her house and run up set it infront of the door with a note that say i hope this will help. knock and run away
     
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    haha...all the women say it's fine, it happens to us. All the men say don't trust the bitch!
     
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    Yes.

    Could go either way. There's not enough info here to call it.

    Mitigating factors:
    -how much has he got "in the bank" with her? how many dates, how much time?
    -is this an isolated event or has she been doing other shady things?

    Breaking a date is always a red flag (at least), but it may or may not actually amount to anything. It depends on the other circumstances and if there is a questionable pattern of behavior.
     
  12. Falconer

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    They've been together for about a year. That's why I think it's so weird. If it were a new relationship, it would make more sense. But when I've been in a relationship that long, you're so used to the other person, it's like "hey, I've had a shitty day, come over but I'm gonna go to bed early" or whatever.

    K we're about to leave. My friend's in the bathroom. He doesn't know about this thread, but when he got here he was like "dude that was kinda shady of (gf's name), huh?" I was like :ugh:
     
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    huntz0r New Member

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    Sounds more like paranoia than good sense to me.
     
  14. MattThom01

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    Um...benefit of the doubt?

    She could just be sick and not feeling well. i go to bed early when I'm sick and feeling crappy
     
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    She's been with him for a YEAR and can't even make a phone call to tell him that she's sick? Sounds pretty shady to me. I'd be suspicious.
     
  16. enfiniti

    enfiniti How firm thy friendship ... OHIO!

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    shes on the rag
     
  17. PocoDiablo

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    Trust your gut, folks. Always trust your gut. You know how you have that tiny "sense" that something isn't right? Well, in most cases you should realize that we're smarter than we know.

    Can't hurt to check.

    So, what happened?
     
  18. [DWI]

    [DWI] Master of Nothing

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    if his gut tells him something is wrong he better check that out, otherwise it could just nag him for a long ass time. He can go by her place to try and cheer her up/take care of her, if she is there and he does what he said he was going to he knows everythign is alright, is she is not there or not alone . . . well be nearby to hold him back.

    so anyways what happened with that?
     
  19. Falconer

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    We took a swing by on the way to the bar. Her car was in the lot (but that doesn't mean she didn't go somewhere w/ a friend). The lights were off in her apt. She called him right after midnight but he didn't answer. Then she texted him at 3am saying she took an Ambien and fell asleep at 7pm, but she couldn't sleep cuz she was tossing and turning now. Now this mornign she's pissed cuz he didn't call her back. I told him wtf, she's the one that cancelled on you. She can't be pissed.

    edit - hangover at work ftl.
     
  20. bobbarker70

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    Doesn't sound wierd to me at all....so what if she cancelled? Stop being a bitch. Maybe yeah at the time get a little annoyed, but by that night u should be over it.
     
  21. Bouwnt

    Bouwnt choppa choppaaa

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    weird that it was a text and not a phone call definitely.
     
  22. PocoDiablo

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    Good that she's mad for not calling her back. He basically said "If you don't want to see me, I'm going to go out and have a good time, and I might meet a better woman in the meanwhile." It'll kick her in the pants to not blow him off again.
     
  23. mrs0323

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    If I'm in a particularly wretched mood, not feeling well, I'll text mr. man and tell him to buzz off, or whatever. It's not an automatic thing in his head "OMG, she's fucking around on me".
     
  24. enfiniti

    enfiniti How firm thy friendship ... OHIO!

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    beats the pants off of "oh you dont want to see me? I guess I will sit around and stare at the wall"
     
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