SRS Is this girl insane?

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  1. Excedium

    Excedium New Member

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    Backstory: I thought this girl was my friend, she had a boyfriend but then apparently they broke up. In class SHE asks me to go to the gym with her, I say hm ok. But sensing this was some weird trick I decided to call her ex boyfriend and tell him that she asked me to go to the gym with her. Then tonight I get this crap on MSN (sorry for the msn speak):

    me: i dunno, everyone just seems to be upset with me or something
    her: no , how can we be? did you give any of us a reason to be?
    me: not that i know of
    me: so what about the gym thing? u still wanna go?
    her: how the hell did you even imagine in a million years that I would actually go with you!!!!!
    her: that was a foul move
    her: now I know who you are
    me: lol what do u mean
    me: u asked me, i didnt ask u..
    her: I asked you for one reason only!
    her: I was curious to know if you'd tell my (ex)bf
    me: haha what
    her: I would have never went anywhere with you without my (ex)bf
    me: lol i knew it was a trick
    me: loll
    her: not even know that me and him are friends
    me: did i pass?
    her: no you didn't
    me: how come?
    her: you should've said hell no from the beginning if you had any respect for either me or exbf
    me: hm? i thought friends go to the gym with friends
    her: not girls with guys
    me: how come? since we both know nothing would happen
    her: it's the principles
    me: ;/ dumb
    her: no it's not
    her: because honestly ... I can't stand you ...
    her: I couldn't stand you from the moment you asked me if I wanted to be friends with you or more than that
    her: that takes guts but that's not how it's done
    her: and you never took my signals
    her: you just proved to me what kind of a person you are ...
    me: ? i thought we would just go to the gym then work out and leave
    me: its nothing major
    her: NEVER!!!!
    me: o well
    her: and not any guy
    me: thats fine
    her: not even for a coffee
    me: lol ok
    me: so u cant stand me eh? hrm k
    me: this will be remembered

    so how exactly am I at fault here? she asked me to goto the gym and I was supposed to say no? what? I thought I made it clear before that we were just friends..Is she just crazy?
     
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    Jesus, women are so fuckin' wacky.

    You should just go gay.
     
  3. Kytro

    Kytro I am become death, shatterer of worlds

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    Mindtricks and backtracking
     
  4. Excedium

    Excedium New Member

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    what do you mean
     
  5. Kytro

    Kytro I am become death, shatterer of worlds

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    It sounds to me like she intend to go to the gym and it wasn't some sort of test - but because you made mention of it her ex she was looking for a way to cover that up. It seems an extreme change in attitude.

    That could be wrong, though it is hard to tell from an IM conversation
     
  6. Excedium

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    Hmm that sounds reasonable. But why such a shift in attitude? She went to completely hating me..deleting me from phone/msn. What the heck
     
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    haha i wouldn't be surprised if her "bf(ex)" was watching over her shoulder during the conversation.
     
  8. Excedium

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    how come? I didn't do anything wrong, she asked me to go to the gym and I called her bf and told him then she found out and went crazy on me.
     
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    this is my take on it too

    basically, when you told her boyfriend, he flipped on her, so she had to cover her ass and lie, now she's pissed at you for telling him, so she's taking cheap shots at you as well

    here's my question though....

    why did you tell her ex boyfriend?

    is he even a friend of yours?

    if you were planning on going to the gym as friends, then there'd be nothing wrong with that, so there's no point in telling him

    if you were going as more than friends, then obviously you were amenable to it, why would you tell him?

    your actions are as confusing as hers are typical
     
  10. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    You did nothing wrong and yes...that girl is fookin crazy mon.....RUN!
     
  11. johan

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    sheesh what a lot of useless drama. Don't waste time talking to her.
     
  12. Excedium

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    well they "broke up" and all the sudden she asks me to go to the gym...the guy goes to my school and I wouldn't want him finding out later and then going off at me for doing anything. If they broke up why would she care anyway?
     
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    jesus christ, you were gonna go to the gym. Unless "gym" is some highschool codeword you're using for going to hook-up. Why did you feel the need to tell the ex-bf? She sounds wacky though, i wouldn't speak to her anymore.
     
  14. Falconer

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    You answered your own question when you said is this girl insane.

    Girls are insane.

    Therefore, the answer is yes.
     
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    Falconer OT Supporter

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    x 11ty billion
     
  16. Crush

    Crush Epidural hematoma up in this bitch

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    That looks like ass covering on her part. Just move on.
     
  17. JemmaX

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    you shouldve stopped talking to her half way through the conversation. you dont need to put up with shit from a girl who says she hates you.

    edit: sidenote - I think its bizzarre that people feel they can be so mean and cruel over the internet. would she have said something like that to you in person? Doubtful. IM is lame.
     
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  18. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    you're not wrong. she's unhinged. bye bye crazy girl..
     
  19. deviant

    deviant rest your trigger on my finger

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    yes, she's insane. consider yourself lucky that she's out of the picture :)
     
  20. Nolimitation

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    maybe it was her ex-bf on the MSN the whole time
     
  21. Excedium

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    I told him because I wanted to make sure he was fine with it. Once, they "broke up" then I asked her to watch a movie with me as a friend (I even said a few days ago that we would be just friends) but her boyfriend went crazy and I got threatning calls from him. She also complained to him about me when I sent her some funny txt messages, and I got threatning calls for that too. I just didn't want anymore of his crazy calls so I felt the need to notify him.

    Update: Today at school, I went out for a smoke but I forgot my lighter so she came up to me and started trying to light the cig for me.. she then said "sorry for being such a bitch" I said ok and left..And avoided her for the rest of the day..What the fuck?
     
  22. Excedium

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    No it was her I'm sure 100%
     
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    Crazyyyyyyyyyy. [/singsong voice]
     
  24. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    :rofl::rofl:

    She's a freak and if she's not currently on meds, she will be soon.
     
  25. luxy

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    wow... this girl sounds very disturbed.
     

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