Ok, so i need some validation here. I've asked this question before but I need to ask again. I was kinda talking with this girl from one of my classes. I was thinking about asking her out, but I decided against it. I've done this a few times this year, and here is the reason: I'm poor, drive a shitty car, no social life, live at home, and I don't get along with my parents. If I were to date a girl I feel like I would always be ashamed of my life. I feel confident, but at the same time I feel inadequate. Am I psyching myself out? Or would things really change if I got a job, moved out, and bought a nicer car? If I did all that, would I just end up finding another reason to justify not asking a girl out?