FRK is this a common male 'problem'?

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  1. Ivandrago

    Ivandrago I must break you.

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    Here's what I've noticed a few times w/ my g/f. We've only had sex using condoms, and even though its great, i have trouble keeping an erection longer with a condom. WIth my exgf almost since day 1, we had sex without condoms and I could go for a lot longer with her.

    Is it stress? Is it i'm using a condom that's too tight? is it something else? I don't have trouble keeping it up...:wtc: but with a condom it's always less time :(
     
  2. Mr. Monopoly

    Mr. Monopoly OT Supporter

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    Too tight would probably have the opposite effect, similar to a cockring. You might just be used to the bare feeling and kinda miss it through the safer plastic bag. :hs: Try something thinner like a Trojan Ultra thin and see if that fixes things.
     
  3. Mr. Monopoly

    Mr. Monopoly OT Supporter

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    Oh, and not to be a cockblocker or anything... but this might get more attention in the Vaginarium.
     
  4. AmosBanks

    AmosBanks New Member

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    I last longer with a condom because less stimulation.
     
  5. pigeon

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    . my boyfriend is the same way
     
  6. Maas

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    with a condom I can't cum, for me it makes it incredible monotonous
     
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    wannaseemysocks I Have Big Socks...

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    me too
     
  8. RougeOgre

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    I have a friend that has the same "early lift-off" problem with condoms on. I think he just hates the damn things, so he cums quick to get them off :mamoru:
     
  9. TKIMFG

    TKIMFG i haz a post count ! OT Supporter

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    Happily married = no more condoms for me, but I used to have a problem when the condom was too thick or too tight, particularly the ring around the base of the condom.
    Last brand I used were Lifestyle Ultra Thins, those worked ok for me.
     
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    Yup. i can't use condoms at all. It's like I'm using some other guy's junk to do the act.
     
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    Without a condom, I can stay hard for hours, even after orgasm.

    As soon as a condom comes into contact with my penis i just start to lose the erection altogether. I don't really know what it is. It takes a lot of work to get one on and get to fuckin again.
     
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    i never use a condom i can't stand them.

    one girl wanted me to use one the other week and i ended up going soft :ugh: :wtf:

    normally when i'm drunk i just go for hours but when i'm using a condom i'm soft after like 10min :ugh:
     
  13. Black of Night

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    No one likes them, but not using them can open you up to more issues. I personally hate them as much as you guys, and I too (if it's with a g/f that I trust, is on BC, and has got tested) prefer not to use them either. But if it's a girl I just met, I just deal. I like the Durex Ultra-Thin ones. They still suck, but its been the best for me so far. I jsut know too many girls that have caught STD's (I don't sleep with them, they are friends), and I would hate to be on the other end of that.

    Oh, and also some guys have a mental block with them. Not sure how to get past that, but its worth mentioning.
     
  14. bamcclure

    bamcclure New Member

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    It could very easily be stress. You could be psyching yourself out.
    Try out a few different kinds. Try the thin ones too.

    Shit happens. We all have our ups and downs (no pun intended).....
     

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