Been thinking about this a lot lately and maybe I'm thinking too much into it, who knows. So I've been getting into that mode where I think it might be good to get back into a relationship (I'm 27). I've met a bunch of girls, gone out on dates (lunch or otherwise). Of the ones that could be classified as "successful", I lost interest. One girl was a good relationship candidate. She had a good personality, little to no emotional baggage, but I couldn't get into her. While this might not sound like an issue on the surface, but this apathy has been happening to me for going on 4 years now. The only girls I can see myself making an effort with are ones I've known for a while (1 year +). Two that come to mind are probably both not possibilities. I probably got friendzoned somewhere during her last relationship (she is single now) and the other is in a happy relationship. It seems like it takes me that kind of time to develop, at least to me, what feels like "relationship feelings". Can somebody give me some type of insight into this?