Is there a way to renew your relationship?

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  1. bloodredsakura

    bloodredsakura New Member

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. Lately things just haven't felt the same. We used to be crazy about each other, now the head over heels feeling is gone. I still love him to death but things just aren't new anymore. Is there a way to renew your relationship? To make things fresh again?
     
  2. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    That "honeymoon phase" doesn't last forever. It's normal.
     
  3. The Secretary

    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    see if there is anything you guys can get back to basics with. Strip your relationship down and see if you can "start over" so you can fall back in love all over again (not that your out of love)
     
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    bloodredsakura New Member

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    I wish it did last forever. :( But it's nice to know what I'm feeling is normal. It's my first serious relationship. Hopefully this feeling will pass.
     
  5. Falconer

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    That is correct. And they've done research on chemicals in the brain to support that statement.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ahh the honeymoon phase. The problem with relationships are that people don't realize that feeling doesn't last forever, and when it it over they panic that the relationship wont last. The truth of the matter is that love goes through phases.
     
  7. sassy1

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    It is normal. The honeymoom never lasts forever, but at the same time it is not impossible to keep that passion in your relationship. Though you may have to find different ways to do it then before and it may take a little effort and creativity.
     
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    bloodredsakura New Member

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    I'm willing to put forth all the effort it takes to keep this relationship going strong. I guess what I'm feeling is just a speedbump on the way to a deeper love.
     
  9. Homeless

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    you guys are in the comfort zone
     

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