LGBT is there a sign to find gay/bi men?

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by <|Mitch|>, Feb 20, 2008.

  1. <|Mitch|>

    <|Mitch|> New Member

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    i was talking to my bi woman friend and she said that lez women wear a purple bracelet. do men have something like that? i wanna find a bf but i don't wanna offend a straight guy if i was too ask him out.
     
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    geniks king of the hill

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    Don't know of one, just use common sense.. I have a good gaydar so i never really worried about it. I find going to a gay club is the best way to meet gay guys :big grin:
     
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    You can't rely on that. Anyone could wear anything and that doesn't mean they are anyone. If that makes sense.
     
  4. <|Mitch|>

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    well, yeah i know what you mean but like my gaydar isn't installed yet. this would be my first bf.
     
  5. Atlantis

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    Poor mitchy :p

    And yah... poor gaydar gets seriously messed up around here :p
     
  6. Naturally Baked

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    u should be able to tell by a guys body language and eyes if hes into u or not
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    you mean nobody taught you the secret handshake?
     
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    This comes with time too or with hanging out with other gay men/straight men who know what to look for. My gaydar used to suck but has improved tenfold over the years. :naughty:
     
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    RX Bandit Sell You Beautiful »

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    The key is:
    a) Hit on any guy you find attractive
    b) but don't be abrasively creepy or off-putting (but at the same time don't just be "Nice guy on the Metro")
    c) and take a hint if he is not into you, either because he is straight or just not into "your type"

    At the gym and the supermarket any guy is fair game. Everyone knows only gay people work out and cook food.
     
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    :werd:

    Once you are into what to look for you are bound to find someone who is hitting on you when you are thinking c). I finally got one to back off after five months of wanting to fuck me. He just gave me the creeps and I cant really figure out why.
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    :rofl:
     
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  13. stubby77

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    Maybe the women your BI woman friend knows wear a purple bracelet..but not all of them.

    Go to a GAY BAR, put up a personal page and you'll have a much better chance.. I did however enjoy the comment about only gay men cook and workout..HA!
     
  14. <|Mitch|>

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    i made this little bracelet maybe that might give off a hint :hay:

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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    Yes, I've heard you're like a walking NORAD.

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    Maybe NORAD running Windows. Occasionally it fucks up, bad.
     
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    Training yourself to pick up upon and notice certain personalities and nuances that a queer person might be more likely to have is really the closest thing you'll ever get to a sign.

    Unfortunately, since, despite how often those stereotypes end up being true, by definition there are times when they are guaranteed to give you a false positive, or a false nagative (ie, a straight guy you would have sworn was gay, or a gay guy that didn't "trip your radar").

    I think the best advice is, like people said, to encourage yourself to be outgoing and adventurous when it comes to flirting, because the response you get back tells a lot more than any amount of gaydar. Of course...use discretion...a seedy sports bar in a rural area of Mississippi might not be the best place to flirt with guys ;)
     
  19. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    I think the gay/bi men just wear the assless chaps.
     
  20. novo

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    word.

    i had a straight friend who i had a crush on and tried to be real subtle at dropping hints and he never let so much and touch him.

    i once introduced him to one of my gay friends, who's SUCH a flirt omg, had his hand up the straight's shirt within a matter of minutes.

    i was very :squint:
     
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    oooh that could be scary!
     
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    Where can I get some of those? :p
     
  23. stubby77

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    any leather daddy store, Ptown..etc. Google it!

    I saw a guy in at Bear Week in Ptown and he had cut slits in his jeans so it was like upside down curtains revealing his butt cheeks...funniest thing I've ever seen in my life.
     
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    :wtf: serious?!? I have 4 lezzies on my team and none of them wear a purple bracelet.

    our team colors are purple though.. :rofl:
     
  25. Bib-Lettuce

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    I need something that says ... 'dad likes leather'
    Something that says ... "leather daddy'?
    Oh is there such a thing?
     

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