or is it a contemporary form of hand shaking? It seems like anymore people hardly know a name (if at all) and they find a place and go at it I had always believed that sex would somehow be a loving experience but I've always found it to not be worth the effort you have to put in to get it. it's a bit different when you're in a relationship and there is someone next to you. I have several questions: 1) Is sex meaningful/important 2) Is sex (specifically the pleasure it offers) worth the effort? 3) Is it good to hold off on sex or better to be hedonistic and satiate desire? 4) Do high standards play any role in the quality of sex or are undesireables just as good? Meaning, better to be picky about who you sleep with or to sleep with anyone? 5) Insert random though here What do you all think?