Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by uwofrost, Jun 13, 2008.
get a girl to cheat on her BF if she makes the first move?
I think in terms of morality, in which case yes. I think it's dick to do anything with anybody you fully know has a bf/gf/wife/husband. Even if they are the one making the move.
i just look at it this way....
i got cheated on once. and i knew the kid that my g/f messed around with. i never talked to him again. i don't know who initiated it, but i was pissed at both of them. her for obvious reasons, and him because he knew she was dating someone(me)
so i wouldn't want to be that guy...
its a pretty classless thing to do if you know shes not single. technically you are not doing anything wrong, but your not doing anything right either. the right thing to do would be to wait til she was single, or find a girl who already is
Huge difference in morality between someone with a bf/gf vs. someone with a husband/wife IMO.
If they aren't married then it wouldn't stop me and I wouldn't feel bad about it
Though it is a dirtball move to do to someone you know. Friends don't fuck over friends
Well that's you. While I feel the betrayal is worse if the person cheating is married it's still "wrong" IMO to cheat on a SO of 2 months, 12 months, 2 years, etc..
I'm not saying the person cheating isn't in the wrong. But that is their issue not mine
Well the way I live my life (and it might be viewed wrong by some people here) is I am loyal 100% to my friends/family. But if I don't know you I don't owe you anything and therefore my wants/desires (in my mind) come first
Completely selfish. Pretty much the definition of selfish... but I get one life and am going to take what I want without thinking if I don't know you. I don't see any reason to worry what someone else is going to think of my actions if I'm never going to know you anyway. (And before this is taken the wrong way I'm not saying I would go into a bank and rob it because I don't know the employees and want the money - but I hope you get what I am trying to say)
No, as long as YOU don't have an SO.
You're doing the other guy a favor by providing evidence that his SO isn't trustworthy. It's better he finds out now rather than after he marries the whore.
edit - if you are friends with her BF then it's a little bit more of an asshole move. However I still submit that you are doing the guy a favor.
I would want to know if my gf tried to initiate something with one of my friends. I wouldn't be pissed at the guy, either.
I only hope that you get dicked over by people you dont know untill you change your tune.
I've been cheated on
Then partied with the guy (he started dating my ex after we broke it off) and had a blast, he was a cool guy. I wasn't pissed at him, she was the bitch.
Oh and FYI we live in reality, which means Karma doesn't actually exist.
I didn't used to think so. Teh more I see it, yes, I believe it is wrong to help someone cheat on there SO.
When you look at it from the perspective of it's only the fault of the person in the relationship, I think it becomes a blurry line between they were willing/initiating and I coerced them/arranged circumstances/etc. until they finally caved. Yes, obviously there's an issue there already if that happens, but...
I'm gonna have to go with no. Fuck her then tell the guy. Win/win.
As long as you're not the one cheating you're good.
Morally or not morally... if she isn't cheating on her bf with you, she'll be cheating on him with someone else that doesn't care.
If she is unhappy in her current relationship and looking for attention elsewhere, she's going to find it if she wants it enough.
A girl that is in a happy relationship doesn't put herself into positions where 'things' happen.
That's such a chump thing to do dude.
personally i would just assume they will break up at some point anyways
morally speaking i would only have a problem if she was married OR i was friends with her boyfriend
i took a girl out on a date that i knew she had a bf. but i was genuinely really into the girl and i didnt know the guy was so i didnt give a shit. she ended up making out with me by the end of the night and breaking it off with him a few days later. but then i always had in the back of my head "if she cheats WITH me she'll cheat ON me." we slowly stopped talking and i havnt spoken to her in 1-2 months
by the time she cheats the relationship is over anyways
girls don't like to do the breaking up if at all possible but of course many guys are too pussy to do it so she eventually has to