First off, sorry if this is a little jumbled or hard to read. Just trying to get a lot of thoughts out. It's starting to look like it's time to end my current relationship with my GF. We've been dating for about 2 years. I got involved with her when I was 19(she's the same age) and I'm now 21, almost 22. She also has a child. Right now I have a good job for someone with my education. I feel I should be able to do most of what I want and still have a good amount of savings in the bank. This does not seem possible with her. I feel like I live in a jail and she's the warden. I rarely ever go out with my friends(I used to be VERY social) and if I do I get a guilt trip from hell about it. OR it is someway conveyed to me that I must find something for her to do if I dare go out without her. I mean for god sakes, I get grilled about what time I left work and what time I get home. Other issues with me are she refuses to embrace a healthier lifestyle and therefore tries to limit mine. She smokes a ridiculous amount IMO and that I can not stand that. She hasn't worked in 6+ months for the most part. She doesn't keep a clean house and she get to sit around all day and take care of her child. While thats not a problem, I do expect her to keep a clean house etc. I openly communicate any issues I have and have done so for the whole relationsihp. It just doesn't seem to have any affect anymmore. I'm very much at a crossroads in my life. on top of that she She never seems to trust me and I've NEVER given her a reason to act that ay. She snooped through my phone all the time. Read my emails at home. She can talk to whoever she wants whenever she wants, it doesn't bother me who she talks to, but if I talke to one girl I get a 6 hour ass chewing. We seem to fight A LOT lately and it's over stupid pettey stuff that I would never think is an issue in a million years. it's not looking good IMO. I've brought everything to her attention(again) this week and I will probably give her another chance(should I?)I have been talking with her about those issues frequently and letting her know exactly how I feel. If she can't make the changes that have to happen to make this relationship work then I guess it wasn't meant to be. Not that I'm an angel but I feel I work diligently on any issues she bring to my attention. I think this is all I can do. It's not about being perfect. It's about compromise. I believe I work hard, am a good provider, I' loyal and I do the things she asks of me. I should be able to expect the same in return. But if the relationship is I want/need to accomplish.I Don't want to sacrifice all of that for the wrong reason. Don't get me wrong. I still care about and love the girl. But I'm not sure being together is going to work out in everyones best interest. A relationship is supposed to be a team effort. When one person is doing all the work, it's not much of a team. And when one person is sacrificing what might be the rest of their life so that the other person can sit around and do nothing with theirs, that's not much of a team, either. I feel like a 30+ year old married man and I don't want to wake up in a few years and ask myself what could of been. Sorry for the long post, lots of thinking and decision making going on right now. Any responses or advice would be appreciated.