FRK Is it possible to hurt your sex life by watching too much porn

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  1. My wife and i got over 300gigs of porn on our pcs, and we watch some all the time. IV just notice that ever since we really got into porn, sex isnt as fun for some reason. And lol a long time ago i decided to get my wife a vibrator to use while im fucking her, and we have used it so much now. Now when we have sex, she wont do it without it.. i know wheres shes commin from though,,, why have ice cream, when you can have it with sprinkles on the top. But she pouts when i dont want her to use it. Sex is just gettin so borring, we have had sooo much sex in the past 3 years, that there is just nothing left to try, lol ..... now when it comes time, its kinda like.... you wanna do it tonight? ok, lay down and spread your legs lol.But still though, i make sure she cums 2 times befor it is all said and done
     
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    Acesn8s The Deadman's Hand

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    desensitized.
     
  3. Yea thats what i thought, it isnt permenant is it? or is it more mental
     
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    Acesn8s The Deadman's Hand

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    I don't think so. How long it takes to get over depends on the person and the length of time I believe. Maybe a long break from it will be enough, or counseling may be necessary.
     
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    BrokenHalo New Member

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    this happened in my relationship. thats why i had to introduce some more freak into the bedroom. things have gotten better. that and i cracked the whip on the whole porn deal. i like it, but only when we're together, and not all the time... not when he's by himself and being selfish :rolleyes:
     
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    Time to try something new. I'd really like to go to a tantric sex retreat someday :wiggle:
     
  7. trigger-hippy

    trigger-hippy Made in Scotland

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    sounds like you need a bit of abstinence. ban sex, porn and masturbation for about two or three weeks and see if you get up an appetite.
     
  8. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    She's gotten used to the "easy way out" with her orgasms. No wonder youre bored! And chances are, she is too. No matter how easy it may be to get off with the aide of a vibrator, its really not as fun as you might think. A solid foreplay session involving two people really dedicating themselves to having fun and still paying attention to what feels good is a lot more fun than "bzzzzzzzzzz..okay, put it in for a sec..Yay! im done!"

    I suggest foregoing the use of the vibrators and pornography for a while. Use your words to turn her on. Make up scenes, fantasies together. Talk about them, whisper them in her ear, tug on her hair, whatever gets her going. Pay attention to the kind of porn she likes to watch most. For instance, if she likes lesbian porn like a lot of girls do, tell her a story about her and her best friend/some random girl from the bar/etc fucking, in detail. Get her involved, ask her what she'd do..etc.. If you'd like to use the vibrator during this time, be the only one handling it, and use it VERY breifly. For instance, touch her for only a second to make her pay attention to certain parts of the story.

    "....you feel her hand slide across your lap,(buzz) down the length of your skirt...(buzz)..."

    If done correctly, she should be writhing and begging for release and it will be due to work on YOUR end, with minimal concentration on the stimulation from the vibrator.

    The vibrator should RARELY be used as a substitution for interaction between you two but instead, a handy, fun little addition to your already smoldering games.
     
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    Vegasoutkast New Member

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    hasnt hurt mine - im a freak that can never get enough though!
     
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    mustang5oh New Member

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    my wife is the same. She works long hours at work, and at night, shes just like,,, i am too tired to have sex, just get me off, and then fuck me and get it over with
     
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    hahahah mines too. Damnit i feel like i havent had a real good romp session in the longest time, but then again i work long hours and for us we just do things like once a week or once every other week. Yeah i know its pitiful to only have sex at often as i do, i miss doin stuff like 69ing or her being on top, or just having a nice ol blow job, but even that i havent gotten in prolly over 6-8 months.

    go head and say i got desert dick hehheheh
     
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    the only way to have too mcuh porn is if your really old.. liek 30
     
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    wasted post
     
  14. Rocky6535

    Rocky6535 Now, let me see you smile...

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    I don't see how it doesn't improve your sex life. If it's causing you to have too much sex with your partner, I think you're just spoiled. What else do you expect?
     

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