Is it possible to have a good relationship without all that phone talk?

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  1. biggie03

    biggie03 Active Member

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    I hate talking on the phone, I only use it to tell her where we going next. I rather text, I really don't care how her day was. Fuck being on the phone, I like talking in person but no the phone. :mad:
     
  2. RockChick

    RockChick New Member

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    ok, so do I... Im a girl btw.
     
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    I talk to my woman no more than 2 minutes per day. More like 2 minutes per week.

    We have a great relationship because when we are together we have tons of shit to talk about. :hug:
     
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    I hate the phone and since the day my wife and I met, we never used the phone as a major way of communication. Although, we have been together pretty much every day since we met anyways. In person > phone. Texting works during the day while at work though, helps pass the time.
     
  8. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    Too much phone time can really fuck up a relationship. Why?

    She will create double binds that you can't talk yourself out of... it is impossible to pass some kinds shit tests on the phone. You can't talk your way out of them, but in person you could laugh a bit, tell her she is cute, then kino her. Shit test passed. Search the mASF archives for 'shit tests' for more examples.

    The phone is for arranging meetings.
     
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    sure, as long as you can talk in person. i usually prefer texting to calling (you don't use your minutes)
     
  11. The Mafia

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    texting is shit. Phones are shit.

    I have a hearing impairment and I hate phones because I am always struggling to hear.

    I'd rather hear her pure voice, watch her lips move, watch her face, watch her eyes...

    Phones are shit. Only good for orgnisation.

    Texting is the same..... People who think they can have a meaningful conversation over texting are kidding themselves...
     
  12. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    I'll completely agree, being in person >>>> phone.

    Long phone/instant/text messaging were for highschool.

    But sometimes there arn't any ways around it ( you live a decent distance / on vacation ect.. )

    I'm different country and it's all we can do for the time being until this fall
     
  13. mindro09

    mindro09 I don't like to beg, just give it to me!

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    i agreee i would rather you text me or send me an email then call me 20 million times a day. I am a girl and I am not a phone person either.
     
  14. Cerridwen

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    I'm pretty sure the threadstarter is only 14 (if I remember correctly from a thread in the main forum).
    When you're that age, phone contact is HUGE with girls. I remember having all night conversations with my boyfriends at that age :mamoru:
     
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    Guz200sx The man who does more than he is paid for will soo

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    me and my girl will sometimes talk for hours and hours about stuff....its crazy. our phone bills have been outrageous the last couple of months. I'm kinda wanting to ween down on it but sometimes just talkin to her just goes by so fast. It'll be like an hour before I even know it.

    We also text each other quite a bit but thats slowed down a bit though now. I don't think it'll be as much as the last couple of months now.
     
  16. WeRdToYoMoThA

    WeRdToYoMoThA Girlies on Standby, Waiting to say Hi

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    i havent talked to the girl im dating in person in over a month.

    have used quite a few minutes though :hs:

    long distance ftl :wtc:
     
  17. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    HAHA that's sooo true, my ex.. well last GF was young needless to say ( it was PERFECTLY legal and not perverted! )... and yea she had a thing about phones thank god she's gone

    New GF, well she lives alot further away and haha she almost would rather not even talk some nights simply cause it is phone/text but we have to for now!
     
  18. DSX

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    well it is key to any relationship
     
  19. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :uh: nice bump

    please try not bumping 2 year old threads unless they are your own
     
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    i don't talk on the phone any more than is necessary

    i hate talking on the phone
     
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    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Hate it.

    Only thing its good for is organising and kinky phone sex when Im away on business
     
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    LOL at bumping 2 year old thread...
     
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    two years :mamoru: nonetheless, my bf and I probably talk less than five minutes per day, usually even less than that. we're just not huge phone people, especially not him and I dont feel like extracting conversation from him the entire time. We're long distance and we see each other every few weeks, so we always have a lot to say to each other.
     
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    :wtc::wtc: they have some kickass hearing aids now that you can buy accessories for and stream your cellphone/television/computer/iPod/MP3 player right through them.. just sayin..
     
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    I saw PocoDiablo's post and was like :eek3: "He's back!" Then I saw the date was like :( .

    Fuck the phone. The less you "keep up" with each other during the week, the more conversation material you have for dates. ;)
     

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