FRK Is it Possible to be TOO horny all the time?

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  1. TampaGirl813

    TampaGirl813 Guest

    I don't know if it's just me, but I feel like I need sex 24/7!! I'm in a great realtionship, we have wondeful sex, but I just can't get enough. I'm not into the masturbation thing that much, but I think I'm going to have to start. My boyfriend isn't the type that wants it everyday, so I don't kow what to do? Is it because of my age (28)?Close to the "PRIME"?? I've always been a VERY sexual person, but I can't get enough of him. I think about it all day, and sometimes we go 3/4 days without having sex, and I feel like I'm going to explode!!
    I have toys and whatnot, but it doesn't turn me on as much as being with him.
    I'd really like to get into watching porn with him, I don't know if that would maybe spice it up a little but more? We've been together for a little over a year.
    Like I said we have GREAT sex,but it seems to taper off though I guess after you have been with someone for a while?? I would NEVER even consider cheating on him, although I feel like if I take care of things myself in a way it's not right. I don't want to hide anything from him, I guess maybe he's just past his peak time (he's 30)...either that of I'm just a nympho and I need help!!

    Any suggestions would be appreciated!!:wtc:
     
  2. TampaGirl813

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    In a round about way I guess. I feel like I'm the one to initiate (sp?) most of the time. Don't get me wrong, we do have the average amount of sex, and it's amazing,at least to me. He makes me feel so good! I want it every day though, and he doesn't...like I said maybe the newness of ot has worn off? It's not like we do it the same way every time, we're very experimental which I like. I'm up for anything at least once, and I usually end up liking it...I just want it ALL THE TIME!!:)
     
  3. BedBunny

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    i feel your pain.
     
  4. TampaGirl813

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    At least someone does!!:bowdown:
    I think sometimes I need a good woman. I've decided if this relationship doesn't work out, i'm going to be a lesbian!! Chics Rock, and kiss oh so good!!:drool: :yum:
     
  5. el_gato_negro

    el_gato_negro New Member

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    I think so. Sex is almost always on my mind (especially since I'm not getting any :o ). It's only a problem when I'm wearing my khaki shorts...they accurately reflect my level of arousal. :hsugh:
     
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    this chick i am seeing is the same way.......we went at it every night for almost a month and lately i've just wanted to go out and do other things than have sex every night.......i kno most guys would want a chick that would give it up every night but :dunno:
     
  7. BedBunny

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    that might be helpful for you. chicks do kiss oh so good, and they smell oh so nice. :yum:
     
  8. xxx

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    i wish i had girls at my school feel the same way as you do TampaGirl :hs:
     
  9. silsurf28

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    Ya know I'll feel the same way. and I'm 32 can't seem to get enough. And as a guy , I thought my prime was up at about 20?
     
  10. Kinks

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    I'd be a little more direct with your guy.. ask him what gets his blood flowing too (porn, role-playing, whatever) and do more of that.

    Given that when it comes to guys, if they're not horny then nothing's gonna happen downstairs... maybe you need to deny him orgasm once in a while? :p That'll keep him "ready" for next time (providing he doesn't rub one out on his own - you'd need to discuss that aspect too although you can't expect him to stop entirely.. after all, we need to remember how to do it in case the woman leaves us!)
     
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    It's a myth, pure and simple. Kinsey was quack. ;) Horniness is a lifelong thing, baby. :bigthumb:
     
  12. TampaGirl813

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    We do alot of different things, not so much the role playing. I don't really know how to get into that. I know he loves it when I wear my schoolgirl skirt ( I used to work @ a stripclub as a hostess) and my glasses. I've asked him about porn and he says it's "just ok". I myself think watching it together is very erotic, I enjoy it. As for the sex, like I said earlier it's wonderful. He's made me try alot of new things which I really enjoy (I guess you could call it being dominated) hair pulling drives me crazy, him choking me, PIITB, and he was the 1st guy I have ever swallowed for. I LOVE all of these things, I think it makes sex so much more exciting. I don't want our sex life to get boring, because I think it's a big part of the relationship. Not that it's based on sex!!! I'm guessing me taking care of buisness myself is my only hope, although it feels nowhere as good as when I'm with him, and honestly I don't enjoy doing it that much..As for him "rubbing one out, I personally don't think it's necessary if you have someone who is willing anytime, anywhere, and if that comes into play I would be insulted, becuse I would feel like I'm not fulfilling my job as a woman taking care of his needs....I dunno, guess I'll just have to wait and see what happens...Thanks all for your input!
     
  13. danromboj

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    Coming from somebody who wanted sex daily until it was available.

    When sex is always available. It's not that you don't want to have sex. It's that when you have it every day, It doesn't do as much for you. It's great, but the 1 or 2 day skip makes the experience better when it happens
     
  14. talongod

    talongod Get On My Level

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    damn nympho my X g.f was one i need 2 find another nymph
     
  15. I go through spurts like this. It sucks because I can't get anything else done, and everything I do and see makes me think about sex. Nothing like having some great orgasms but still wanting more....like you can't quite calm down.
     
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    Hahaha. When my ex got close to her 30's she turned into a sex FIEND! For years I was all over her, and she'd turn me down. I always said "When you hit your thirties you're going to be all over me, and I'll be tired of trying." Sure enough, I was no longer interested in her! We eventually got crazy and started having threesomes (to 5somes, e and 4 girls, not bad!) and shit like that.

    If your man is lacking, be sure he gets plenty of rest. Get him away from the TV and computer. Cut down on sodas in the afternoon, that kind of stuff.

    But basically.... yeah .... you're a woman getting older. Welcome to the horny club!
     
  17. QUEEN BLUE

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    This is exactly how I am. My husband cannot keep up with me. Plus it's hard that we work different schedules. I've told him that I need a steady girlfriend on the side to take care of my sexual frustration when he is at work. :lick: And since I do not get to have sex as much as I'd like, I masturbate quite often, but then I want sex even more because it's not as satisfying by myself :clit:.
     
  18. mitch24

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    i can help i wouldn't mind gettin some everyday
     
  19. Transporter

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    Just gotta have self control. Sure its good, but there are also more pressing issues to take care of during the day.
     
  20. sextech

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    i can't see it, a guy turning it down my wife calls me a man whore nympho.she tryed to burn me out one time after cuming 8 times and 6 hours latter.she gave up.we had sex so much the first 2 months after we meet, that they fired me for not showing up too many times.then i marriered her and im lucky to get it once a week.
     
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    oh snap.......We fucked like bunnies all the time for years.....slowed down for a while..(a couple of times a week)....now she is getting close to the prime age. :x: And well....its almost everyday again. wooooooooooohoooooo :yum:
     
  23. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    me too

    And I'm with a guy who's good with once, maybe twice a week.

    So, I'm intimately familiar with internet porn and my left hand.
     
  24. nypartyboy

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    I don't think it's possible to be TOO horny.
    Just don't walk around grabbing asses with your cock in your hand through the mall!
     
  25. Funkdooby

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    Sounds like a clear cut case of clinical nymphomania. I would suggest getting half a dozen rampant sex starved adolescents to move in with ya ;)
     

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