Is it OK for your GF to try LESBIAN stuff ?????????

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Is it OK for your Girlfriend to try LESBIAN stuff ??

  1. YES !! Its my fantasy

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  2. Hell NO !! it's CHEATING !!

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  3. Maybe, if she says she is just playing around

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  4. I dont know, not sure

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  1. Dale In Sales

    Dale In Sales Search my name on You Tube

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    I like the lesbian scenes in porno but when I watch it with other females, they usually dont like it which I understand. And I am mesmerised by two lesbians showing affection in public places but I just cant imagine being in a serious relationship with a female that is attracted to other females.

    Is it me ??

    If I'm serious with a female, I think about getting married and having children etc, I just cant seem to trust a woman who has had lesbian sex or even thoughts about it. Its hard for me to relate to anything gay because Im very straight.

    Would you let your Girlfriend tongue kiss a girl or even have lesbian sex ??? ???
     
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    yea if I could watch
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Yes. However, if I had a GF, we would have an open relationship anyway.
     
  4. Yail Bloor

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    In the context of an exclusive relationship, no.

    That's cheating.
     
  5. Dale In Sales

    Dale In Sales Search my name on You Tube

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    Thats the way I feel. But women all know its a sexual fantasy that is very common among straight males...

    Has anyone heard the song I KISSED A GIRL ?? by Katy Perry ?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0n87NgklSiM :naughty:

    I wonder if this is really a song for bi curious females or just horny guys. ???
     
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    thats how my SO feels.

    its a fantasy of his, but he would never want it to really happen
     
  7. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    "If your gf has agreed not to see any other people, including women, then seeing other people is cheating."

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    Would it be OK with you if she did stuff with a girl in front of you?
     
  8. Pringles

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    I'd be willing to let her experiment if I was appart of it. The momment she wants to do other things sexually without me is the moment she is cheating and not being monogamous.
     
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    only if she included me in it. otherwise if she was going behind my back and dyking it out I'd consider it cheating. I wouldn't be comfortable with her asking me about if she could either, as I'm sure she wouldn't appreciate me wanting to suck some dude's cock.
     
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    Been there and seen it, maybe I'm different but it really is far from cool to watch two girls kiss and do other things. Maybe watching just isn't my thing because it did nothing for me but make me turned off, I would've been turned on if it was me with them but no being part of the action FTMFL. The girlfriend is BI and I have no problem with it but she knows its cheating without consent and I have let her experiment because I was young and thought "oh cool two girls kissing" but then your nuts drop and you realize its not fun unless you get to join.
     
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    My current GF is openly Bi. Unless she brings it up to me I am not going to even be bothered with the idea. Even if she did bring it up to me it would depend on the context of the situation.

    I'm as infatuated with a 3-some as any other guy but I dont think I would participate in one with a significant other...
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

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    My bf considered it cheating when he found out his ex was fooling around with her girl friend :dunno:
     
  13. Dale In Sales

    Dale In Sales Search my name on You Tube

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    I dont know if anyone else notices this but the only "bi curious" women Ive ever knew where white. whats up with that ? :ugh: I dunno just a thought...

    A 3-some is something you do with friends not lovers, As a guy I think that its cheating and there is always the possibility that she falls in love with the female and decides she doesnt like bones in her fish anymore :coolugh:
     
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    i know plenty of non-white bi-curious / lesbian / whatevers
     
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    if i were there and aware...if she went out with a girl and hooked up knowing full well it was going to happen, then yeah, i would have an issue. just like she would if i let some guy blow me
     
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    it's cheating IMO
     
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    i cheated with myself this morning!!:mamoru:
     
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    It's cheating, what difference does it make if its same sex or animal or what ever it is.
     
  19. Dale In Sales

    Dale In Sales Search my name on You Tube

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    Some may think if that's what she really wants to try, let her.

    A womans touch is something a man can not provide so to satisfy her curiosity, it might help the relationship... You never know.

    Its just not for me. And I think if the guy lets her try something like that, he really isnt thinking with his big head. IMO :ugh2:
     
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    If you two agree thats cheating, then its cheating.
    What I don't get is why you wouldn't trust a woman who's attracted to other women simply BECAUSE she's attracted to other women.
    What is it you guys find so threatening about this?
    Do you feel threatened? Do you feel that she has desires you can't fulfill?
     
  21. JohnJohnJohnson

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    Isn't that a reasonable thing to think?
     
  22. Yail Bloor

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    no

    exclusive relationship = just the two of you
     
  23. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    I'm fine with it provided we agree to the details before hand.

    Will this be an open relationship ? Or is this a special kind of thing and I am invited and allowed to play with the other girl too.



    but if just at random with no permission ? no.
     
  24. demosnat

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    Yep. Its why i'm asking.
    But how is say, my unfulfilled desires for other women more threatening than my unfulfilled desires for the pool boy, your hot brother, or the guy making my coffee?
    A guy might say "well they're all men, I can fuck you like they would" but you can eat out/finger just like another woman would, there's nothing more 'other' about another woman than another man
     
  25. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    Well obviously YES.



    I am very Dom/sadist. If I fell for a girl that was purely vanilla and would not be willing to try it out, I would be trying to get an outlet that she could not/would not provide.

    Same thing here. She is into women, no man can really replicate that. Well ok maybe a very feminine guy, but let's assume she wants a masculine man.
     

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