is it normal to still think about your ex even if she/he cheated on you etc?

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    It has been about a month or so, since I broke up with my ex girlfriend. She cheated on me with her ex bf at a party and had sex, she says because she wanted to see if she still had feelings for him. I dropped her that day and still havent talked to her. I stay really occupied I mean really occupied wroking 80 plus hours a week running my business, but I still think about her and it is bothering me. I think sometimes cause I feel lonely and just miss being with someone I connected so well with. She read me like a book and knew me so well I just felt great with her, now that is gone and I cant go back for what she did. Im stilll trying to figure out if I have feelings for her, or more likely just feel lost without that someone I would like to care about?

    Hopefully I meet some new girls at college next month, but i guess im just more confused on what i need and want in my life.
     
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    Nikkorizz New Member

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    Don't worry, it's normal. I mean, it was a killer backstab from someone who meant a lot to you.
     
  3. Coco Monkey

    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    WHEN you meet someone new, and you will, you will forget ALL bout that psycho cheating whore of an exgirlfriend. Trust me.
     
  4. okita1

    okita1 Great spirits have always encountered violent oppo

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  5. Jackal

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    it took me a good 6 months to get her out of my head and shit, but every once in awhile there where reminders. now i found a new girl and all i can say is ex who?
     
  6. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    yes it's normal and give it some time.
     
  7. RuskeR

    RuskeR ReksuR

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    You'll eventually forget about her. Your doing the right thing be not talking to her though. She'll be back begging for you to get back with her, so you better be strong and say no.
     
  8. Darrin

    Darrin Eat. Sleep. Arrest People.

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    its hard at first, but u'll be ok :) all normal
     
  9. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    thanks guys for the replies!
     
  10. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    it might suck until then, but yea, when you meat someone else...the past wont matter.
     
  11. JP®

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    I think about mine from time to time, but its mostly because she took it ITB.
     
  12. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Wel I don't agree that it will pass with time. I think about ex's a lot, but it is no longer the heart wrenching pain it is just fond memories. You will never forget her.
     
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    To me, cheating at the level where sex is involved is a bridge better off burned.

    You'll get over her. Move on, and resist the temptation to go back if it crosses your mind.
     

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