Is it normal to NOT ejacualte after 90 minutes of intercourse?

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Vendetta4400, Jul 7, 2007.

  1. Vendetta4400

    Vendetta4400 Guest

    With a break in between of course. I had sex for my first time (I'm 21) and I didn't orgasm, what the hell is wrong with me? :wtc:
     
  2. If it's the first time, it's fine. It takes time to get comfortable with the person.
     
  3. Vendetta4400

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    Whew, and I thought something was wrong with my dick.
     
  4. Nothing wrong, just enjoy having sex.
     
  5. lauren

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    werd. none of my bfs came the first time. :hsughno:
     
  6. Vendetta4400

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    Maybe something is wrong with your vagina :run:
     
  7. SUBLlME

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    With your logic, something is probably wrong with your girlfriend's vagina too :ugh:
     
  8. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    :rofl:
     
  9. lauren

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    werd :rofl: :rofl:


    id love to see that conversation play out.
     
  10. Vendetta4400

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    She was a 37 year old and she's not my girlfriend yet :hsugh:
     
  11. Vendetta4400

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    Wanna write the script for me? :bowdown:
     
  12. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Sometimes when you go for a long time, and yes, 90 minutes is a long time (despite what the millionaire, porno star, lamborghini-driving, supermodel-banging OTers will tell you), your dick kinda starts to go numb and you can't cum. The same thing happens to chicks, too. Sometimes it's just "not gonna happen" (again, despite what OTers will tell you because most male OTers can get their gf off 234987 times in 5 minutes).

    Bottom line, totally normal.

    In fact, it seems to me that most of the times I haven't been able to cum have been at the end of long sex sessions. It's usually resolved by taking a little break and then resuming.
     
  13. lauren

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    i'm fuzzy on the details, but assigning blame would definitely get someone kicked out. :mamoru:
     
  14. Vendetta4400

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    Yeah, I just started to get dizzy towards the end of it, and the well was getting dry so it was time to call it quits :o
     
  15. Abomb

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    extra lube.
     
  16. essejgnad

    essejgnad poopty pangts

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    Shit dude, first time I had sex I finished within a minute thirty seconds, ha!

    Stop whacking off so much and you should be able to finish.
     
  17. Vendetta4400

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    I don't wack off all that much, maybe once every 3 days :o
     
  18. essejgnad

    essejgnad poopty pangts

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    I had to start whacking off alot to learn how to hold it. I also think of decapitated babies and babe ruth. Those buy me about an hour to an hour and a half of time before I blow.

    I suggest you really really get into the sex and stop being nervous, it would really help you. Sometimes when I listen to what she says during, it makes it so hard not to blow. haha
     
  19. fcheerleader

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    wow you must suck at sex if you cant even get yourself off i feel sorry for the lady you were banging
     
  20. Boosh Dag

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    scored a 37 year old for your first time?


    right on. :bigthumb:
     
  21. essejgnad

    essejgnad poopty pangts

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    37. Maybe she was a bit too seasoned, if you know what I mean.
     
  22. Vendetta4400

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    Like I said I was probably too nervous to get off :o
     
  23. busydoingnothing

    busydoingnothing A broken man too tough to cry

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    I've seen and responded to this same thread so many times it's not even funny, so that should tell you something.

    Cliffs:

    - It's partly nerves/psychological
    - It's a new form of stimulation for you; you're used to your hand, a vagina is very different. Instead of being 100% in control, you're about 50%
    - It's not uncommon at all
    - It takes a few times to get used to it
    - Relax, have fun, don't think about cumming, focus on pleasuring her
     
  24. busydoingnothing

    busydoingnothing A broken man too tough to cry

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    :gtfo: If you're not going to be helpful, you don't belong here.
     
  25. NCS

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    some people take a long time to cum.
     

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