Is it morally wrong for men to like younger girls?

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  1. Socrates

    Socrates New Member

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    Hundreds of years ago it was acceptable (and normal) for older men, maybe age 35 or 40, to marry women who were 15 or 16. Stuff like this used to be socially acceptable.

    Society has changed, but human nature has not changed.

    If you saw a man who was 35 checking out a 16-year-old girl, would you look at him and think "Fucking pervert..."? How do you feel about people like this?

    This came to my mind from a thread in the main forum that had many sexy pictures of a girl who appeared to be 15 or 16 years old. Most of the posts are guys saying things like "Wow! Hot!" then followed by a guilty statement saying "That is so wrong. I'm going to jail," or something like that.

    What do you guys think?
     
  2. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    is this mother fucker serious? is it wrong to find a young woman attractive.... no.

    some 16 year old's look more mature than some 23 year olds.

    this is a dumb thread. go get laid dude.
     
  3. spdrcr

    spdrcr OT Supporter

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    I'm just gonna go with "No" and leave it at that.
     
  4. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Depends on the scenario. A 60 year old man and a 10 year old girl? Yes. A 30 year old man and a 25 year old girl? No.
     
  5. antihero

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    a 16 year old is a dumb kid and you have no business messing with them.

    20 and over is pretty much morally fair game for a 100 year old as far as im concerned with right and wrong.
     
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    is it wrong to look and say "she is attractive?". no

    is it wrong to act on it? depends on age of the girl.
     
  7. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    :werd: Here we are talking about self control again in yet another thread :mamoru:
     
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    I am 21 and the cut off for me to even talk to a chick when I am out is 18. I was at a community college party last week and I was talking to a very attractive chick and we got on the subject of age, she told me she was 16 and I just turned around mid sentence and went back to playing pong.
     
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    Yeah I'll be driving or walking around town and from afair I'll see a female and be like "damn she's got a nice ass" then you get closer and its like....."oh, well I guess I should make reservations at jail". I don't think its wrong to think they are attractive. I'm 22 and I think 18 is even to close to young to date. They just aren't mature. I know now that I wasn't mature at that age.
     
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    16 is legal in Canada


    18 for anal though :hsugh:



    Though that is way to young (16) to be touching at my age IMO
     
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    No

    We're biologically inclined to like healthy young girls as prime choices for mates.

    That doesn't mean it's cool for a 35 year old to date a 16 year old, but the sexual attraction is totally normal, and driven by our own biological impulses to want to reproduce.
     
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    Prepubescent, yes. Post, no.
     
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    Not at all. It is just that we live in a society plagued with pro-feminism as of late so this feeling of supposed guilt is sort of obvious.
     
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    hundreds of years ago, women were also sheltered until they were married.


    therefore, i think the maturity level of a 16 year old and 20 year old hundreds of years ago probably didn't differ that much.

    to answer the questions, normal to find them attractive, but i doubt you'd want to date them
     
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    They're fucking disgusting. I constantly have old perverts coming in and being creepy to me and my female coworkers (our age ranges from 16-23). It feels gross and wrong, and the way they look at us sometimes seriously makes my skin crawl.
     
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    physically attracted to, of course not.


    but girls dont mature emotionally as fast as what they used to. :dunno:
     
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    looking is ok, often think nice tits, but would never approach for sex
     
  18. Socrates

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    You're retarded....I was just looking in the main forum and saw a thread about jailbait that a bunch of guys were drooling over. It was simply a question that popped up in my head. I was just curious about what other people thought about the situation. I have no idea how you think I need to go get laid based on that, but okay.
     
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    here's how I think of it:

    You can't control what you feel emotionally, but you can moderate the intensity of the emotion.

    And of course, you can control how you act on them.

    Is it morally wrong to think a 16 year old girl is attractive? No, I don't think so. I would have issue with an older guy stalking her, harassing her, etc.
     
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    Easy rule to think of when dealing with morality:

    No harm, no foul.
     
  21. Yail Bloor

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    I'm 34 and young chicks are hot.

    God knows I can't stand to listen to anything that comes out of their mouths and I wouldn't voluntarily spend any time with any girls that age.
     
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  23. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    there is no such thing as a thought-crime. feel free to be attracted to dead babies, so long as you don't act on that impulse. now, i might find your sexual preferences disturbing, and that's just an inevitable possibility. but i can differentiate between "i find that disturbing" and "that is immoral."

    there is no such thing as a thought-crime.

    i completely disagree.

    i'm not saying i'm going to go date a 16 year old. for one thing, it's illegal here. for another, there are social stigmas against it. i'm 24.

    but my reasons for abstaining with a 16 year old are not ethical ones. i believe this is an example of a value that exists in our culture because it exists in our culture. circular. not on its own merits. the consent argument doesn't hold water and the mental development argument, which makes a lot of sense at younger ages, makes rather little sense at the age of 16, given that we DO allow people with IQ's of 100 to fuck people with IQ's of 160.

    the slippery slope argument doesn't work either because there are always gray areas in life. a 16 year old brain is one thing. a 13 year old brain is another. a 15 year old? hard to say, but as with ANY gray area: one errs on the side of safety.
     
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  24. BlazinBlazer Guy

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    Yet. Remember Orwell? :mamoru:
     
  25. Genghis.Tron

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    I think we can argue that what matters mostly is the idea of conflict of interest between two people more so than age difference. When a younger person "chooses" to have sex with an older man there shouldn't be any other reasons than sexual attraction which rules as "wrong" any relationship with a child or any teenage girl with daddy issues.
     

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