Is it just me that...

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  1. TopDawg

    TopDawg New Member

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    cannot cum inside a woman?

    I am having great sex with me gf, where I constantly make her orgasm with my tongue and sometimes my finger. But I just cannot for the life of my cum inside of her. It feels great to be inside of her, but I will just end up either losing my erection over time, or she gets too dry. I can never cum in her.

    I blame it on the massive amount of masturbation I did when I was younger. Right now we can only finish with my hands, with her providing some assistance on my balls.

    Is it the condoms? I am using Kimono, supposedly the thinnest kind there is. We don't want to go through the hassle of pills, since we only see each other once a week.

    I guess it's funny that most men complain about stamina, while I complain about climax. I can go on and on and on, but just can't come to a stop...
     
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    Use lube midway through??
     
  3. TopDawg

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    :facepalm:

    I guess. But still, I am too used to the tight grip of my own hands. Her pussy feels warm and wet, but never tight enough to make me cum :hs:
     
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    This goes alot further than just being inside her.. Tell us whats really up..
     
  5. TopDawg

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    :rofl:... Are you suggesting that I only stick my dick in her and call that fucking? I do a good amount of thrusting but to avail :hs: It's just a very different kind of stimulation than my hands.
     
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    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    STOP masturbating for while and that should help.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :werd: The answer seems pretty obvious.
     
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    Yeah, you've ruined yourself on sex by being one of the iron-fisted frequent masturbators. You've conditioned your body to orgasm to a sensation that you are apparently finding impossible to achieve with a woman.

    Stop masturbating like that, maybe get a fleshlight, since you can't squeeze it, and you should be able to re-calibrate your body.
     
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    This. Stop jerking it for a while and it will change.
     
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    I have a similar problem. It's the condoms for me. My cross to bear I guess. This is one of the reasons why I dont do one night stands or have sex with girls I dont really know...I have to raw dog it for it to go to completion a good 7/10 times and I refuse to raw dog someone I dont know.
     
  12. poormanq45

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    Maybe your girl is a whore? Like a hotdog down a hallway!

    Introduce her to kegals. My girl started that shit and OMG! She can about rip my dick off!
     
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    Kimono is the only brand of condom I've had break on me.

    It was during anal :mamoru:
     
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    It's sad that many women dont know about it.

    I happened to mention the word kegal in passing convorsation and the girl I was sleeping with at the time said "what's kegel." Luckily she is a petite girl all around. :naughty:

    The girl I lost my virginity to had massive kegel spasms during orgasm and when approaching it. Every girl since just hasn't lived up to that. :rofl: Though squirting is also pretty hot.
     
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    :squint: thanks
     
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    No problem buddy :)
     

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