Is it ever too soon to give flowers to your date?

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  1. Riconosuave

    Riconosuave New Member

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    I've never been one to bring a little something for my dates. A lot of women tell me that it kind of freaks them out when their date gives them something on the first date. Any opinions? How would you women feel if your date gave you one red rose after just a few dates?
     
  2. Sharkticon

    Sharkticon The safest place in combat is on an AEGIS Class Gu

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    I'd say give the girl PALE PINK rose or any pale or blended color. It symbolizes sociability and friendship. Make sure you mention it to her too.
     
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    ya cuz when u want in a girls pants you try and get in the "friend zone":rolleyes: get her chocolates, godiva, nothing less.
     
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    Riconosuave New Member

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    Red one (I know it symbolizes love) makes it seem like you're coming on too strong? But it's just one. Should be no harm, right?
     
  5. Sharkticon

    Sharkticon The safest place in combat is on an AEGIS Class Gu

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    It's a vehicle to something greater. Godiva chocolates you don't just give to any girl. They are rather pricey. On a first date, you want to keep your spending $40 or less. :cool:

    Please, do not give a red rose on a first date. Trust me.
     
  6. Riconosuave

    Riconosuave New Member

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    Definitely not. I don't ever bring anything but myself on the first date. The more I think about it ... best to wait for a special occasion.
     
  7. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    ...for me personally ...instead of a dozen roses or something ... just one rose (pink or yellow) or perhaps another flower.... just a little something to show you were thinking of them but not coming across too strong
     
  8. DesignerAddic71

    DesignerAddic71 RIP Luther Vandross 1951-2005

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    i agree. i would avoid red roses in the beginning. stick to pink, yellow, white, something like that. or even a daisy or something like that is cute.
     
  9. Coco Monkey

    Coco Monkey OT Supporter

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    i never bring anything on first dates. until you two become serious, and you're both comfortable with each other. flowers on the first few dates can freak some girls out.



    cause bottom line, are chicks are crazy.
     
  10. JordanClarkson

    JordanClarkson OT Supporter

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    I agree, don't bring flowers. It makes it seem like you'd bring them for anyone. If you're out and see someone selling flowers, that's when you should buy one
     
  11. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Bingo! Don't go into it with something to give her, it would look like you're desparate. If at some point during the evening you see someplace you can buy some small gesture like a flower then go for it if you feel like there's a positive dynamic happening with the date. :bigthumb: No need to waste funds on someone who isn't worth the money.
     

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