Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Shogun Rua, Jan 20, 2009.
isn't that the only way it will happen?
Well, if by extroverted you mean talking to people, then yes. Unless you have developed telepathy I don't see how else it would happen
no, it's better to find someone with whom you are compatible.
my gf and i are both pretty introverted, and we have awesome chemistry.
being extroverted helps with meeting people, however. but when my gf and i met we instantly hit it off cuz we were both on the same wavelength about almost everyting.
how do two actual introverts actually get to talking to each other?
i'd think everyone has some amount of extrovertality( i think i just made up a word) in them
if you want an extroverted gf, yeah
better to be yourself... I often notice extroverts attract introverts
I've always liked shy guys. When I met my current boyfriend he barely said anything to me and I saw that he was nervous. I love that personally, though I know it's not what most women want.
Moral of the story, be yourself. If you aren't an extroverted guy and act extroverted just to get a girl eventually she's going to realize it wasn't who you are and who she was initially attracted to is who she'll want to be with.
I don't think that you have to be an extrovert to get a girlfriend. You just need to be able to see when someone is interested in you, and if you are interested at the same time you then have to make a leap and take a chance.
I am totally introverted but if I see that someone is interested in me when I am in them. I make myself make a move.
You have to be able to give a woman something to be attracted to. Most women are attracted to social status. Extroverts generally have higher social status than introverts. So unless you meet a girl that is attracted to introverts or shy guys, which most women aren't, then yes, it is better to have some extroversion to attract women.
its better to find someone your compatable with
i was attracted to my gf *because* she was an introvert.
my personality type is not compatible with party girl type personality gfs (thats my politically correct rephrasing of "party girls dont make good gfs").
obviously i was extroverted enough to pursue her (thanks vag and tyler durden's "foundations").
but we both have introverted tendencies, altho she is more shy than i am.
the other day she said "i love that you dont want to go out and party all the time." i was like "same here."
she's hot but she's not an attention whore. that's rare. she's also smart (we watch "the Universe") and kinda nerdy (likes LOTR and plays WoW).
extroverts will meet more people but that doesnt necessarily mean they'll meet more relationship-quality people.
introverts tend to recognize each other and click very quickly.
extro > intro
Are you sure you're not confusing extroverted with outgoing?
so jealous. I'm getting sick of attention whores......even the above average ones.
ur one lucky SOB.
but to the topic, I agree, just find someone that gels well with you. Don't go SO out of your way to get a girl, eventually it will not work out when you revert back to your normal self.
if you're intp you cant just will yourself into esfj
even if you could, you'd be attracting the wrong kind of person.
I usually have a preference for introverted men
i woule write a way longer reply but i can only post from my phone. fazle is working to unban my IP and soon i will return!
I am an extrovert and my husband is an introvert. I chased him
online dating is an introvert's best friend
well god damn, you stole the words right outta my mouth..
you better hang on to her falconer lol
If you're an introverted person, that doesn't mean you NEVER speak to anyone, it just means in general you're not as outgoing. I know plenty of introverted people who have great relationships.
If you pretend to be outgoing, and someone likes that and then finds out you're not being real it could be bad in the long run. Just be yourself, introverted people can make friends and have relationships just like extroverted people.
my 2 cents.