Is it a bad idea if the guy comes with the whole "friendship with benefits"?

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  1. forgotmyname

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    Normally, women are the ones who come up with the friendship with benefits thingy. Is it bad if men come up with that idea first?
     
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    As long as both parties are fine with it, who the hell cares who suggested it?

    It's neither a good idea, nor a bad idea.
     
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    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Says who :hsugh:???? And why would it ever be a "bad" thing for a guy to mention it first? I'm so lost.

    I've always found it was men who mentioned being fuck buddies :dunno:
     
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    i've done it with 1-2 girls and i've been the one to ask if it was cool with them. i can't really imagine a girl being like "hey, lets just fuck but i dont want a relationship."

    even though that's what she's pretty much agreeing with, 99% of girls are not going to bring it up.
     
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    I was saying that because one woman brought it up with me.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

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    :rofl: So because one girl brought it up with you you now assume most women bring it up?

    Anyway, it doesn't matter who brings it up, that's like asking "should the guy or girl say ' I love you' first?" It doesn't fucking matter. Go after what you want.
     
  10. sportsjunkie

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    no it's not a bad idea. it just means up front that he's fucking someone else too :mamoru:
    so use protection and get tested :o
     
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    if one party is emotionally affected by the situation it isn't FWB

    edit for the dummies: hence why caring who brought it up negates it
     
  12. Falconer

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    Aren't guys supposed to cum when there's a fwb relationship?

    oh wait
     

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