Is each of your subsequent SOs hotter than the last?

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Do you date consistently hotter people each time?

  1. I'm a guy - yes, each gf is hotter than the last

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    50.0%
  2. I'm a guy - no, my hottest gf was a while ago but I don't care

    24 vote(s)
    25.0%
  3. I'm a guy - no, my hottest gf was a while ago and it sucks :hs:

    9 vote(s)
    9.4%
  4. I'm a chick - yes, each bf is hotter than the last

    10 vote(s)
    10.4%
  5. I'm a chick - no, my hottest bf was a while ago but I don't care

    5 vote(s)
    5.2%
  6. I'm a chick - no, my hottest bf was a while ago and it sucks :hs:

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    I was thinking about this the other day.

    If each SO you date is hotter than the last, then it would be pretty easy to keep being happy with how your SO looks.

    Has anyone ever dated a 10 to whom no one else can compare? If so, how did you deal with subsequent relationships?

    This discussion is only about looks. Obviously no one is going to downgrade from like a super sweet flexible giver to a psychotic selfish bitch :rofl:



    This thread was spawned from a discussion I had with my friend where we talked about Chris Rock's thing about how women can't downgrade in lifestyle and men can't downgrade in sexual activity. We started talking about if men or women could downgrade in physical appearance of their SOs and not be bothered.



    EDIT - ATTN: WOMEN - this thread is talking ONLY about physical looks. NOT overall attractiveness. So this means NOT money, NOT status, NOT intelligence, NOT habits, NOT education, NOT car, NOT where he lives, NOT what kind of home he has, NOT how good he is with money, NOT how popular he is, NOT how good he is in bed, NOT if he likes animals or not, NOT his sense of humor, and NOT how he treats you. It is ONLY about how he looks physically.

    I had to add that edit in there because I swear every single woman I have ever spoken to has been unable to initially grasp the concept of ISOLATING PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS. Some still didn't get it even after a more detailed explanation.
     
  2. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Wait- I think they all rate the same in level of hotness. Where's my option? I is confuse.
     
  3. BlackIce72

    BlackIce72 New Member

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    Damn. I'm disappointed.

    Falconer made a poll that did not exhaust all possible outcomes!
     
  4. Boudreaux

    Boudreaux Active Member

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    well, technically, yes, each of my gf's has been hotter than the last, but i voted option 2 since its been nearly 2 years, i've dated various girls of varying "hotness" since then, and I really don't care.
     
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    but, i also think that her hotness has something to do with the reason i've been non-commital for the dozen or so women i've dated since.
     
  6. Ford4Life

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    Mine haven't always gone up in the looks department, and I don't care. I got smart enough to realize there are more to girlfriends than just looks. A lot of the really hot ones I've met as of late had severe cases of princess syndrome.
     
  7. LudaMan

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    This new girl I'm dating (who is pretty much my gf) is what you would classify as a thicker girl, and I've usually dated skinny girls. Honestly, I don't think I've ever been more attracted to someone as I am to this new girl though.
     
  8. Falconer

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    "all the same hotness" crew doesn't need to vote :dunno:

    they also need to stop dating clones :squint:
     
  9. Falconer

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    Attraction is subjective. Some people like thicker girls more than anything else, so to them it's hotter :bigthumb:
     
  10. Athlete218

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    I've had 4 girlfriends that i actually cared about....

    girl 1 - cute definitely NOT hot though...kinda nerdy, now a doctor
    girl 2 - very hot..got hotter since we dated, now a nurse
    girl 3 - looked like jlo...on par w/ girl 2
    girl 4 - the hottest, easily. gorgeous gorgeous face, huge natural boobs, skinny w/ a nice ass.
     
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    They kind of just went up and down. I've always been the one that was asked out and never asked a guy out myself. So I don't try to go out with hotter guys each time. If I like the guy that is asking me out, then I go for it.

    Although, I think my current SO is the hottest guy I've ever dated. :drool:
     
  12. LudaMan

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    That's true. I usually don't go for thicker girls, but this one has me for some reason :o
     
  13. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Definitely
     
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    thicker girls :bowdown:
     
  15. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    My husband is super super fucking hot to me. I know in the grand scheme of things he may not be as attractive as some men I have been with in the past but to me he is the hottest. Makes me all mushy :big grin:
     
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    this is impossible for women to answer because they cannot separate physical attractiveness from some of those other features. (and thank god)

    there you go
     
  17. Falconer

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    No, because as specified in the first post we are talking about PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS.

    Physical attractiveness does not change with your feelings. If you date someone who is physically a 10 and she ends up cheating on you with your best friend, brother, dad, and an entire NFL football team, gets you into $1M in debt, and steals your car, she's obviously a dumb worthless bitch deserving of your hate BUT SHE'S STILL A 10 PHYSICALLY because none of those things affected her appearance.
     
  18. Falconer

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    Sounds like your attraction to your husband is based on a lot of stuff (which is a good thing!).

    But this thread is about physical appearance so none of that other stuff matters within the context of this thread.

    So the bolded part sounds like you are basically saying "because of a bunch of factors, my husband is the guy to whom I am more attracted than I have ever been to anyone before, however physically speaking he might not be the hottest, but overall he is the hottest."
     
  19. fluentinsilence

    fluentinsilence New Member

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    It's always an uphill climb for me. Either the person would have to be on some similar level of attractiveness as the last one or much more. I have no interest in returning to base camp at the bottom of the hill.
     
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    Meh, as far as physical attractiveness, the most attractive girls I have experience with were not my significant others. Super hot girls make terrible significant others. I'm sure if I ever find a super hot girl that also meets my intelligence, personality, and maintenance requirements that I also get along with and who also likes me I'll hop right on that. lol
     
  21. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :squint:

    :rofl:

    I know what I like :dunno:
     
  22. Nomad

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    i've found that my ex seemed to get better the later i got in my life.....so i should have a supermodel wife @ 76 :eek5::eek5::eek5:
     
  23. Falconer

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    we're not talking about the subconscious in this thread.

    Maybe I'm the only person who can objectively evaluate a woman's looks without taking her personality and quirks into account.

    Nevermind I guess. This thread is going how I envisioned it.
     
  24. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    A 10 according to society then? Because emotions can change my physical *preferences* ...
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Evaluation is a matter of matching what you see with your preferences, if your preferences change then the evaluation changes.

    edit: unless you are trying to match what you see with the world's preferences... is that what you're asking?
     

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