Is anyone else so spoiled sexually that if they got with a new SO...

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  1. Abomb

    Abomb New Member

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    ...they would have to be pretty much down with everything or you would not be satisfied?

    Its gotten to the point with me if the girl does not like sucking cock, swallowing, licking and sucking nuts, licking ass, using toys, getting fucked in the ass, watching porn, getting tied up, handcuffs etc etc etc that I think I would be greatly dissatisfied.

    Am I a selfish arrogant narccistic sexual freak of a person or would anyone else be in the same boat as me? :rofl:
     
  2. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I would be pissed if I got a new SO and she did not like sucking, swallowing, and doing anal. Heck I'd be pissed if I did not get laid 1-2x a time, the sad part is most of my female friends are the type that use sex as a tool to get what they want or have it like a couple times a week. That is why they are only my friend.
     
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    I can do with out all forms of anal and bondage...other than that, yes.
     
  4. Alaya

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    Nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone with your similar sexual preferences :dunno: I don't think that makes you selfish, I think that means you have a clear idea what you want out of a sexual relationship and there's nothing wrong with that. So long as you're willing to satisfy her desires too.
     
  5. antihero

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    seconded.

    Its like chris rock says, women cant take a step backward lifestyle wise, and men can't go back sexually.

    I had a GF that after a long time of doing it just fine said no more finishing bareback anal. I was surprisingly bummed out, and of course just wanted to do it more. She was a good sport though so I didn't push it since I assumed if she was going to tell me no on that one thing and yes to anything else I came up with then she must really not like it :hs:
     
  6. Falconer

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    Totally normal dude. You know what you want which is good.

    There are some chicks in your shoes, too, who are upset that their current bf doesn't call them a dirty little slut and pull their hair while fucking them in the ass.
     
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    no bj=no gf
     
  8. Abomb

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    I honest to god dont see how this can not be every single guys #1 rule but to each his own..... I guess the only theory with that is they have not found a chick who can give an amazing blowjob?
     
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    :bowrofl:
     
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    :rofl: chris rock is pretty much spot on about everything ... and that sucks because bareback anal is amazing
     
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    indeed :hsd:
     
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    Well to me a girl refusing to give me a BJ is about more then just the physical enjoyment. Yes I do enjoy the act and the visual but also the girl is willing to do something that pleases me without any direct physical enjoyment for herself.

    Disclaimer: Yes, I am more then willing to return the favor and they seem to enjoy it.
     
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    anal is nothing something i care about.... but the rest i agree with you.
     
  14. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    I agree, I think the most important thing in a sexual relationship with a SO is that you show you want to please them and how much their pleasure is important to you.
     
  15. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    abomb, what if she just can't do something you want? like she is willing to but physically she is not able to do it.
     
  16. Abomb

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    can you be more specific?
     
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    one of my best friends (pretty hot too) said she will never give a bj because its gross.
     
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    she should date one of those guys who don't like bjs then.

    It'd be a perfect match.
     
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    so true:rofl:

    for some reason some women are afriad to ask
     
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    :rofl: holy shit, i was thinking the same thing! :h5: :bowdown:

    except, i don't think women can go back sexually either. at least i know i can't. :dunno:
     
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    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    Biggest struggle I'm having currently.

    And I agree with TS and no, I don't think that there's anything wrong with that.

    But let me ask you this: What if everything else was perfect? I mean your personalities mesh well, you want the same things out of life, you have the exact or similar morals, religious views, political views, etc. Life is harmonious. However, in the bedroom, she's doens't like anal. She doesn't like the idea of tossing salad. She's not opposed to oral, position changes, trying different things and may even have tried it with you or with someone else. But there's just some things she is not comfortable with. Would you still break it off? Just because she's not willing to do anything that involves anal??
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I have upset many a girl this way. Or at least one.

    Shit, maybe two. I guess I would have no way of knowing.
     
  23. chica&buddies

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    :wtc: wow... that's difficult to answer. :noes:

    i guess it'd be different if the person hadn't experimented with me a few times. i'd hate to get a flat out "no," versus, "i'm sorry, i've tried, but i'm just not into that. :("

    i don't think i'd break up with a guy for not liking anal. if he didn't like to give/receive head that'd be another story! :mamoru:
     
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    This has created a really crappy situation for me. I was spoiled in my last relationship, which ended suddenly when he fell off the face of the planet without a good bye or anything. Started dating a new guy, not too bad in the sack, but he claimed he was pretty adventurous. Doesn't seem like the case now, pretty vanilla really, and not nearly matching my drive.

    Even worse is the old SO contacted me about a week ago. Even with the asshole behavior, I'm tempted to go back. Our kinks just matched perfectly...
     
  25. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    A-fucking-men on this shit. It can be done, but Christ if it ain't hard. Only way it's even bareable is if the possibility exists that it will get there.
     

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