FRK involving other couples/people

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  1. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    so...how do just approach somebody with the idea of a threesome or doing a couple swap type of thing? :hs: and how do you know who's into that kinda stuff or even where to go to find people that are open to it?

    i feel so noob :wtc:
     
  2. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    My advice, from past experience in it:

    If you as a couple are ready to do this. With no hesitation and clear expectations spelled out between you two.

    Then, maybe go to a swingers club, or other "couple" friendly places.
    If you have particular couple in mind, friends perhaps.
    You need to feel them out, make sure they are on the same wave length as you are, and expect the same things from it as you two do.
    A good ice breaker is "Well Jane and I were thinking of swinging"
    and take it from there. Pretty blunt but.. works.
    Another way - is bring up that you were approached by another couple..
    then see how they feel about things.
     
  4. RougeOgre

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    For us, it just happened. We were really good friends with the other couple, tons of stuff in common....then one night after dinner and drinks, we talked about it.
     
  5. JonnyBlazeRSP

    JonnyBlazeRSP Hustlin's in my veins - you cannot stop it - Walki

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    it was hard for me and my girl to find another guy for a mfm. we spent months online with no luck.

    finally i hired a male escort and it couldnt have been better. :)
     
  6. YogiBird

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    We placed an ad online for an mmf.

    Heaps of response, but mostly not our up of soup......

    First experience was crap, guy turned out to be a complete arse.

    Two guys we had a threesome with after that completely made up for that.


    And while i allways was sure it was a recipe for disaster, nowadays we

    have threesomes with two of our best friends and it rawks.
     
  7. naughtie

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    We might have to hire a female one... it's almost impossible to find anyone that suits us these days. We have been on one of the adult hook up sites for over a year, and the most we have found was a couple to webcam with.

    I remember the story of your experience with the male escort... It was HOT :drool: would you recommend us doing the same? Were you able to look up the health history of your escort? How does that work?
     
  8. El Rudo

    El Rudo The Borinqueneers

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    How did you feel afterwards? And are you still together with your girl?

    My gf has been wanting to do a mff threesome for me but I feel like i should return the favor and have been curious on some peoples stories, especially the aftermath.
     
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    GND BBP! OT Supporter

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    go to a lifestyle establishment or join a site.

    SDC.com
     
  10. Zee

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    Or take a trip to germany

    http://www.maihof.com

    My wife and i went to this place THREE times, shes very particular in the type of Woman we pick up......and she finally did the third time around :naughty:
     
  11. cgnmd0819

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    I guess it all depends on the relationship.. I know for me personally I would have an issue with the whole threesome thing--simply because I'm a very JEALOUS type of person, and when I'm in a relationship I feel you should be committed to that one person and that person only.. I guess that would go along of my monogamy beliefs..
     
  12. Shadygirl

    Shadygirl Love is Life and Happiness

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    I sooo want to try this with me and my b/f.....but I have a problem with looking for girls, on one hand I don't want anyone I'm really friendly with but finding a stranger semms unhealthy....I've gotten close to one girl but she kept bringing her b/f around and we're not into that....
     
  13. Birdhouse in ur Soul

    Birdhouse in ur Soul omg a girl! Pam>Karen and The Office Crew #8

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    I too would like to try this sometime, but I am worried about the after. Like if we did it once and yah it was fun, but I wouldnt want the husband to not be satisfied by only me after that happened. Anyone experience anything like that?
     
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    If you are having those concerns now, I would say not to involve another couple or you and hubby need to talk more about the issue.
     
  15. RougeOgre

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    This is definitely one of those things that you have to talk about ALOT before you do it!!!!!
     
  16. Birdhouse in ur Soul

    Birdhouse in ur Soul omg a girl! Pam>Karen and The Office Crew #8

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    Oh I know- I wouldnt do anything without feeling 100% with the situation.... I was just wondering how other people felt afterward. Do you continue to have those kind of sexual experiences, or do you go back to exclusivity. Can you be happy with only your partner after that kind of experience?
     
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    We have an arrangement of sorts with another couple. Sometimes is MFF, sometimes it the quad, sometimes it's just FF. I can't speak for the others but I'm just as satisfied with only my hunny. I really do enjoy the experimentation too though and hope it can continue for many years to come!

    Variety is an addictive spice!
     
  18. Birdhouse in ur Soul

    Birdhouse in ur Soul omg a girl! Pam>Karen and The Office Crew #8

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    Thanks for the insight- I know it would be on an individual basis thing, but I was curious what other people felt too.
     
  19. Smoked

    Smoked $5.50? Man fuck the avatar...how about you just sh

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    Hammer out your rules first.

    The rest will come, usually all too soon.
     

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