Hello all, I don't know if this is even needed but I like this forum a lot and wanted to introduce myself. I know it's kind of late, too; I've been posting here for 2-3 days =p. Anyways, I'm a total FS newbie. I've never done anything remotley kinky but I've always wanted to, and I really haven't trusted anyone enough to tell them. I had a dream about a week ago that opened my eyes and showed me that I really need this aspect of my life to have anything near a healthy sex life. So I'm a total beginner, in to bdsm, a little naive, and a probable submissive personality (though I find I would like a girl who is equally submissive). I'm just seriousley starting to explore this part of myself and it's very interesting; any guidance from someone would be wonderful, but I won't expect it. It's weird typing this all out, I have never uttered these words in my entire life, nobody knows anything about this side of me, it's making me a little anxious. I guess this forum has made me feel very accepted and it's nice. Thank you all. btw, I love the subtitle of this forum, "advanced sex". it makes me laugh every time I click it. I hope to meet some more interesting people here and maybe bring in some extra freak.