Interesting issue in the bedroom

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  1. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    Whenever I have sex, I can go for an hour easy before I cum. I first I thought it was great, but then I realized I get the girl to cum 3-5 times and I am LUCKY if I get to cum during the session of sex. I figure I would blame it on to much masturbation and condoms, but after not wanking it for 10 days, I still lasted 50mins+. I always hear of guys lasting 5mins and the average being 30mins...

    I know I am NOT gay because I can't get it up around guys.

    Any thoughts on this? I am getting tired of faking an orgasim just so I can take a 10min break from fucking.
     
  2. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I wish I could go bareback, but I always slap on a condom to be safe. I have used a lot of different types.
     
  3. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I was afraid you were going to say that... The girls I have been with weren't on the pill. So fuck!
     
  4. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

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    i can do the same thing

    take it off and won't last half as long
     
  5. Cerridwen

    Cerridwen Guest

    Are you on any type of medication?
     
  6. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    No medication what so ever... the only medical thing that could possibly effect my sexual performance would be Bell's Palsy (left side of my face was paralized and I was loosing feeling in my left arm/hand), but I recovered 100%.

    I'm starting to think its the condom, first time I ever had sex, I threw a condom on and lost my erection. Took it off, got it back...

    Hopefully I'll run into a girl who is on the pill so I can go bareback.
     
  7. God of Thunder

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    use an ultra thin condom.
     
  8. busydoingnothing

    busydoingnothing A broken man too tough to cry

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    I have the same problem. Part of it may be psychological, that you want to cum so bad that you're focusing on that which is actually PREVENTING you from cumming. Another part of it may be that you're more used to the feeling of masturbation than the feeling of actual sex (two very different feelings), and so you find it more difficult to cum from sex. Do you have sex often or is it every now and again?
     
  9. almostnormal

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    Try a thin one, Crown skinless or Kimono. The American ones suck.
     
  10. PocoDiablo

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    Try Kimono Ultra-thin. I could only find them on the web, not in stores.
     
  11. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    /\ will do, hopefully it will do the trick
     
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    PocoDiablo New Member

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    They are good shit, I tried many a brand before I found them. :bigthumb:
     
  13. Kinks

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    I have the same problem. with a condom, can go for hours. without, well.. it all gets too good rather quickly :rofl:
     
  14. teo

    teo . => ? => !

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    Do you cum more quickly while wanking? Ever considered that maybe you're so used to the way you stimulate yourself that your partner isn't stimulating you in the way your mind says is most pleasurable?
     
  15. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    Wanking off can take 5 to 30mins, when it comes to wanking it is mostly the mental that can make it 5mins or 30mins. I think it is the condom removing the physical pleasure, since I am attrached to the girls I sleep with.
     
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    Fusion OTSS FTW OT Supporter

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    Bareback and you will cum alot faster.
     
  17. Mallix

    Mallix New Member

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    I fixed that exact same problem.... Vasectomy. It's such a relief to not have to worry about "spur of the moment", "Who's got protection", "Condom breakage" or many other things that caused concern. OK, don't lecture me, STDs are still a concern.
     

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