SRS Intense breakup.

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  1. b0vine

    b0vine New Member

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    Friends for 3 years, fell in love, dated for 3 months, broke up. Im at the fucking bottom. What can I possibly do? I feel physically and mentally destroyed. She meant more to me than anything, and Im not kidding.
     
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    Could you provide some details about the breakup?
     
  3. FredricaBimmel

    FredricaBimmel Great big fat person

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    Time time time.

    Cutoff all contact with her. Everything. It's hard as hell but it is COMPLETELY worth it.

    Do the things you've wanted to do. Go hang out with your group of friends. Pursue that hobby you've always wanted.

    Travel somewhere.

    Do whatever it takes to take up your time for a while. The first bit of getting over it is the worst. You are in your situation for a reason and you should make the most of it. Just be you and see what happens.
     
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    Only magic formula is Time + Distraction = Emotional Healing.

    You have no control over time, but you can control the distraction part.
     
  5. METALLlC BLUE

    METALLlC BLUE New Member

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    That's unfortunate, really. It's heartbreaking, I can tell. The truth is, you aren't destroyed on either front, you just feel you are right now.

    I certainly hope that your own life means more than her. Right?
     

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