Insensitive to BJs?

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  1. vizyn

    vizyn New Member

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    Not sure if its me or what but..

    No girl I've ever been with has been able to get me off with head. It starts out feeling good but quickly diminishes and I don't feel much of anything after a bit. Unless they use a ninja-death-grip with their hand (which they say gets tiring after a very short time) it goes forever and eventually I end up losing it. My last GF of 2.5 years eventually got demoralized and gave up after many attempts (and yes, I provided feedback as far as what to do and not to do). The girl I was with this weekend got defensive "I've never had a problem with OTHER guys."

    Anyone experience anything similar?
     
  2. Abomb

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    how often do you masturbate? how long are average sessions?
    how often do you have sex? how long are average sessions?
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I've known many guys who told me the same thing. However, I remember pretty much all of those guys were almost addicted to porn and jacking off. They desensitized themselves :dunno:
     
  4. Abomb

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    i can recommend supplements to increase sensitivity and pleasure
     
  5. vizyn

    vizyn New Member

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    Depends on if I'm getting some or not. If I'm getting some, I just don't. If I'm not, no more than once a day, but generally not every day.

    Recently I've been having sex quite often.. close to every day and more than once in a day.
     
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    i was the same as you, but after one very dedicated girl, it's pretty easy for me now
     
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    drugs ftw!
     
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    GTLifter Banned

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  9. chlywly

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    She's not doing it right. Also you watch way too much porn and jerk off far too much as well.
     
  10. vizyn

    vizyn New Member

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    Where does the line get drawn for spankin it too much?
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    When you lose sensitivity/duration
     
  12. Abomb

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    :mamoru:
     
  13. knucks

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    stop spanking it, lose the death grip, relax.

    my ex blew me last week, first time in a while a girl was able to get me off with just a bj, it was unreal.
     
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    You lucky bastard... :cool:
     
  15. vizyn

    vizyn New Member

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    Word. Thanks guys.
     
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    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    The SO's mouth is not a good fit for my penis, so I don't get BJs. I'm part of that small fraction of US men not obsessed with blowjobs, so I don't really care. I prefer sex.
     
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    i'm telling you. getting a really determined girl is the way to go. she tried every day for like a month :bowdown:
     
  18. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    Tell her comments like that aren't going to do anything to help because now you'll be too busy thinking about her blowing other guys to be enjoying what she's doing to you.
     
  19. teep

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    :rofl:

    "you're so much better than my ex. his penis was too big"
     
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    Falconer OT Supporter

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    :rofl:

    "you're so much better than my ex! Her pussy was so tight that I could only last like a minute because I would cum in her tight, warm, soaking pussy!"
     
  21. Hahawhat?

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    Some women just suck at it, I have had 5 or so women do it and only 2 got me off, 2 I lost wood with, and one just gave up after 15 minutes.

    Yeah I don't have a lot of experience but some women can just be horrible at it. I have a friend who has only got off with his ex out of 20 women. Well oral only.
     
  22. ldaggerl

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    I don't really know how to enjoy, I think all the girls I've had do it just weren't that great. One girl liked doing it but I never got anywhere with it. I use the line that I've never gotten off to it with any girl before. It almost determines them to finish me off lol.
     
  23. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    agreed.

    i was with a guy who could never cum from oral. :rofl: i was up for the challenge. it took a little longer than usual, but he came. :bigthumb:
     
  24. Abomb

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    ever since i watched my first porno I knew blowjobs were for me :bowrofl:
     
  25. BoypussY

    BoypussY game over.

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    this. try not to jerk off for a couple days before she tries. you are gauranteed to blow when you have it built up.
     

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