FRK "Initiating" a threesome?

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  1. z284pwr

    z284pwr OT Supporter

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    Recently the S.O. has really gotten excited about the idea of a threesome and thinks she has found someone to do it with. So now she is curious if any of the wild ones on here could offer any suggestions/ideas on how these get initiated? Is it just basically 2 people having sex then the next joins in or what? The comfort thing is taken care of, the weirdness, jealous, etc. etc. all that is no worries at this point, she is looking for ideas about initiation, if anyone has any advice/info to offer, should be appreciate it as always :) :wavey:
     
  2. m52

    m52 I can't believe I ate the whole thing

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    nice... we have discussed it, but the hard part of trying to find someone is the worst!

    good luck with it
     
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    Here is how it worked for us (we are a 4-some, sometimes 3-some):

    We were friends for quite some time. We "joked" about it frequently and all parties expressed interest. We went some place private (very relaxed atmosphere), had dinner and drinks, discussed some final rules. We started with extended foreplay and progressed from there.

    In 3-somes, we try to be sure that all parties are participating at pretty much all times, but this is what works for us!

    Good luck and have fun!!!!! Feel free to PM me if you'd like.
     
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    SQLee The OTer That Cares™

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    We talked to the third person about it. I'm not entirely sure since it was 3+ years ago, but I think I was the person who talked to the girl about it first, since I worked with her.
     
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    Thanks for the offer :) I'll have her send you anything for sure.

    I think the biggest thing she is wondering if that right there, how does the "foreplay" get started, obviously with 2 people its just the simple rub, kiss, etc. etc. but with 3 people? I think it would be just a bit weird to all get together then just do, okay, lets do this. That just seems weird? :ugh: Obviously thinking to much about it and letting the mind get in the way is the worst thing possible.
     
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    Of the threesomes (or more) that I have been in, they all started out with everyone kissing or foreplay, etc. Everything just moved on gradually from there, getting naked, oral, intercourse, etc. I'd say start out in a confortable setting and just let it happen. Your instincts will tell you what to do.
     
  7. Mr. Bungle

    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    I would rent a threesome porn to give so ideas...remember porn isn't realistic, but at least you can see some options...:dunno:
     
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    Yeah, rent a threesome porn in Utah, RIGHT, ha, haha, :wtc: we "technically" can't even have them shipped here :ugh: Anywhere have ideas on where to download it :noes: preferably amateur and not the totally beat the shit out of the girl stuff, she isn't really into that.
     
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    No porn in Utah?!?
     
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    Wow, Utah sucks!!

    Whenever I've been involved in threesome, me and my SO talked about it before hand, had a few drinks and then I would initiate things with another guy. (I've only been in MMF threesomes.) Once we started to mess around, my guy would join in... :dunno:
     
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    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    Do NOT use a porn to scout for ideas for a threesome. The positions are all cliche (and based on camera angle, not physical stimulation) and you will bure out moving people from position to position because that's "what they did on the movie".

    The best threesomes are when there is kust a pile of people with mouths, hands, and other body parts just letting loose and having a good time. Don't force it and just have fun.
     
  12. Mr. Bungle

    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    Ok well then at least tell the guy the positions, for christ sake he lives in the "whites fucking state in the union"~ Robin Williams.

    There is a triangle of blow job/eating out

    There is a guy getting a blow job by one, and another on the balls

    Guy and girl having sex, other girl all over her tits

    Girl on Girl 69 and on girl getting fucked...

    Guy fucking girl, other girl on the girl who's getting fucked face

    There has got to be more...dildos/strap ons if you can buy them in Utah...
     
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    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    All of those are too forced. They may be fun and may actually happen but when you go into the event with a checklist of positions that you "have to" do it becomes more of a job that fun.

    I'm sure he knows how to have sex and I'm sure he has thought about what to so. Forget about all of the things you are "supposed" to do and do the things that you like. Just have sex and just have fun.
     
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    Mr. Bungle *lube'n up the shock paddles*

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    Normally there are SOME expectations like a certain fantasy that is desired to be acted out...Like a two girl blow job or getting fucked with another woman sucking on your tits. Normally these are discussed before hand when talking about rules and boundaries about what people are comfortable with and what they aren't.
     

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