FRK Initiating 3-some in college dorm setting

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  1. jman911

    jman911 New Member

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    There’s a chick in my dorm complex who seems to really like both me and my roommate (whose also my best friend). She’s constantly sending us signals. We haven’t really had many conversations with her and we don’t know her very well. However, she always flocks to us at parties and is always really excited to see us. She gets really touchy with her hugs when she’s drunk. Also, she’s well within both of our leagues. My roommate and I want to have a 3-some with her.

    She seems like the type who’d be willing to experiment a little.

    So, my roommate sent her a Facebook message asking her if she wanted to see a movie “with us”. She said she’d love to . We will all be sitting on the bed—with her in the middle—watching a movie. How should we go about initiating the 3-some? Should I go in for the kiss, while my roommate undresses her? Or is some verbal initiation necessary?

    My biggest worry: I want to confirm that she knows what we have in mind before hand. For all we know, she may think we want to see a movie in the theatre and not in our room. She may think that we just want to be friends. How do we explicitly (without being too obvious) ask her if she’s down for a 3-some?

    Ps, any ideas for the movie?
    Thanks in advance :wavey:
     
  2. SohCahToa

    SohCahToa Active Member

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    ask her if she's ever seen the eiffel tower
     
  3. KindlyCuddly

    KindlyCuddly Irina Lazareanu

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    Unless you want a massive sexual assault charge you'd better ask her first. :ugh2: That is just asking for trouble. She's probably young and will freak out.
     
  4. RougeOgre

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    Please, Please, Please look at thread titles before posting. There are now 3 of these on the first page with pretty similar questions :rolleyes:
     
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    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    watch the Secretary... oh and ASK! Don't just assume that because a girl is friendly with both you and your friend that means she wants to have a threesome...
     
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    oh look, another thread exactly like each of the others. JMAN, just open your eyes, look down the main page and you will find your answer

    Oh, and for the record, what you are wanting is called Rape ;)

    What is it with guys who think that the minute a girl shows them the slightest bit of attention that it means they want the guy to fuck them! OMG!

    Question to women: Do you do the same thing? If a guy is friendly to you, do you immediately think that they want to fuck y......oh wait....nevermind....it is men, they DO want to fuck you :mamoru:
     
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    my guess is that shes actually only interested in one of you. her in though is to be nice to both of you guys because you're best friends and your tight with each other.
     
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    Oh and BTW... This is one of those situations where you must be VERY explicit about everything!!!!
     
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    both of you put a hand on one of her legs...then ask her...

    or chloroform...
     
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    Definitely Chloroform
     
  11. JordanClarkson

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    that's a gangbang, not a 3some. anyway, she comes into your room and ...

    you: nice shoes
    friend: nice shoes
    her: um...wanna fuck?

    or

    you: so which one of us do you think is better looking?
    her: i dont know, you're both equal
    you: so are you saying you'd be up for a gangbang?
     
  12. jman911

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    So how do we explicitly ask her if she wants to have threesome?
     
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    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    "My Buddy and I are interested in having sex with you.....together. Are you interested?"
     
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    get everyone drunk then:

    do you find me cute? (hopefully yes)
    do you find my friend cute? (hopefully yes)
    one of you kiss her.
    then the other one kiss her.
    then be like would you like to have us at the same time?
     
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    I can see this going very, very badly...
    alcohol+guilt=drama

    Sorry, but if you can't just come right out and ask her if she's interested then you need to forgetaboutit !!!! (yes, I have had successful 3-somes)
     
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    Silly RO...remember, it is Abomb....you just ignore him

    And although my comment might have sounded sarcastic, it was serious. As RO stated, if you can not bluntly state it, then it won't work.
     
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    this is one of the worst ideas i've ever heard of.

    it also makes me nervous that you're not even sure she knows you want to watch a movie in your dorm room, honestly this is just an awful idea.
     
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    As I said previous, what he is wanting is called Rape ;)....actually as Aluyminyum clarified it is actually GANGrape :mamoru:
     
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    oh wait, it's really a 3some and not a gangbang? well shit. that is way out of my area of jurisdiction.
     
  20. jman911

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    I won't lie, I like Abomb's idea.

    I think I'll send her a message making it clear we're watching a movie in our room, alone, with the both of us. Won't that be clear enough? It seems a little awkward asking a girl for a 3-some, kind of like asking a girl for a kiss...

    We don't plan on raping anyone. If I go in for the kiss out of the blue (or use Abomb's idea) and she says no, we'll obviously stop. We just hope to go for an approach that won't lead to extreme awkwardness if we fail.

    Ps, is this a gangbang? I thought gangbang was 3+ more people?
     
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    gangbang = one girl getting banged by more than one guy
    3some = one guy banging two girls. or one guy banging a girl and a guy. or three partners all playing with each other
     
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    failboat.jpg
     
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    two guys + one girl is a threesome, regardless of what the dudes do together.

    as for the OP... if you don't have the stones to ask, you shouldn't do it.
     
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    drama in a dorm? never!
     
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    nuts in da ass.
     

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