Putting the toilet paper under instead of over is not a little thing. It's a big thing This thread is for little things. This drives me nuts (in any situation; not just in romantic relationships): When the person says something, but you don't hear them clearly cuz they're in the other room or something, so you say "what?" And then they're like "nevermind" or "forget it." That drives me up the fucking wall. It was important enough to say the first time, so it's important enough to be heard, so say it again. Now if the person replies "n/m, it was dumb" or "n/m I was talking to the TV" or "n/m I made a dumb joke," that's fine. But some people get all passive aggressive about it and are like "NOTHING" while beginning to lose their cool. That's what annoys me, especially in a romantic relationship. I expect my gf to have near infinite patience (with me) and a "long fuse", so to speak. My psycho ex was terrible about this. Reading the thread about staying calm reminded me of this, so I thought I'd make a thread for people to list things that annoy them in relationships.