I've been dating a girl for the past several months now. In short, we really like each other a lot. Problem is I have to move back to Ontario which is 3000km away. My guy friends will just tell me to move back, break it off with her, and call her every few weeks. She clearly has no strong reasons for staying here. She has lived in about 10 towns in the past 2 years, had countless jobs, has no family in the area. She was adopted and only knows her adopted family, which she loves dearly, but rarely visits. I really hate the idea of leaving her when I know how upset she would be to hear. (apparently she cried after not seeing me for a few days). I strongly believe she would come with me, if not permanently, at least for the drive there. Her older male roommates voluntarily talk about her behind her back and tell me things such as "shes a troubled girl" or "usually its the gf keeping the bf on track, with you its the other way around, lol". So I understand she is an emotionally unstabble girl who would probably enjoy the company of any man in her life. How would one approprately discuss the situation? I'm thinking flat out telling her I have to go back. The move is only temp though I wont really consider a distance relationship.