Lately I just can't stand her. She likes me to call her when she gets off work and at like 10 o' clock. If I can't do it right at these times because I am busy working or something like that she totally wigs out. For example, last night I talked to her at about 6pm, I told her I would call her later on when I got home from my friend's house. So about 11:15 comes and I'm barely walking into the door of my house (I was going to be calling her in like 2 minutes anyway). She calls and totally goes off on me that I didn't call. I told her I would call her when I got home, and she agreed. She just seems far too clingy lately as far as that goes. And it seems the more clingy she gets, the more I want to pull away. I can't stand being smothered. Another thing is that she lives 50 miles from me. I just got promoted at work as well as a raise. Everything is going great for me in that respect. She wants me to drop everything and move down by her. I just can't see myself giving up what I have worked for 2 years to attain, when she could just as easily move closer to me. Also, she can't stand it when I do things with my friends instead of her. That is something I can never change. There is no way I can give up the friends I am hanging out with. I know that no matter what choices I make in my life, they will try to be supportive of me. I feel that I am expendible with my girlfriend. If I do something that she doesn't like, I dont think she would give it a second thought to say we shouldn't date anymore. One more thing is that she wants to get married. She would like to get engaged around Christmas time. There is no way in hell I am ready to get married yet, another thing I'm not going to be pushed into doing. Do I seem like I'm being immature about this? I mean, granted, there are some things that couples need to give and take to make it work. But personally, I think she is being unreasonable about this. I can't leave a great job, I can't not hang out with my best friends, I can't help it if her clingyness is making me feel more distant from her. I also know that I need to talk to her about these things. I just don't want to feel like I am being selfish in the things I have just listed off. I do whatever I can to make her happy. I love her, I really do. I just don't know if I could see this working out when she is expecting me to give up so many things that I care about, when in return she gives up nothing.