I'm taking a vow of celibacy

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  1. JordanClarkson

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    Starting today, I've decided to give up sex until I find the right girl. I don't feel like I can sleep with just anyone anymore. I'm over the game and I'm over the need to feel wanted or to get validation. It's got to mean something and if a person isn't going to be a part of my life forever, then I don't feel that it's worth it to share this kind of intimacy with them. I want the next girl I sleep with to be the one that I marry. :wiggle:
     
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    it doesn't count if you aren't getting any anyways. Sorry
     
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    Seriously it's smart, and I think it's rewarding. It makes you not take someone in just for sex.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Good luck! Will you admit it if you cave????
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    did you catch something from that stripper? :mamoru:
     
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    :rofl:


    But good luck man, I hope it works out for you.
     
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    Thats huge, good luck. Keep updates!
     
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    This isn't the movies, dude.

    This isn't going to speed up or slow down your likelihood of meeting a "marriage material" type of girl. Just so you know that.

    You'd be better off to take a vow of celibacy for "x" amount of time than to put the immense pressure of "the next girl I sleep with will be the girl I marry" on yourself. :hsugh:

    Or you can just stop fucking anything that moves and make it a personal requirement that you're only going to sleep with girls you care about.

    What you are doing makes no logical sense and has suddenly put a huge pressure on your shoulders that isn't necessary.
     
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    Can you still get a good BJ or HJ? IF not your not going to last
     
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    or Just Raise your standards?
     
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    lol i got so much action when i took that vow once, girls would meet me i'd tell them and they'd make it their mission to break me. but i also didnt masturbate or anything.

    when i finally gave it up it was rad.
     
  14. JordanClarkson

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    Thanks :h5:

    Once I make a decision on something it's pretty much set in stone :)

    :hahano: I've been thinking about doing this for awhile now. It's been a bit of an addiction. I'm giving up porn too. Now I understand why alcoholics can't have even have one little drink if they want to stay sober...

    It's more like a spiritual cleansing for myself rather than doing it to find a girl to marry.

    I did it all through high school so this will be a piece of cake :greddy:

    Yeah definitely. I'd need some way to figure if I'm sexually compatible with someone
     
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    hopefully there won't have to be any updates :mamoru:
     
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    i'm taking one too.....





























    for the weekend.. :hsugh:
     
  17. JordanClarkson

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    temptation is a part of life. gotta fight the demons man
     
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    I don't think it's realistic for women to try and stay celibate. :mamoru:
     

  19. i could not agree w. this more.

    what is it going to prove? how will you know you met the right girl? am i the only one that thinks sexual chemestry is a big part of a LTR? if you dont fuck her how will you know if she is the right one?

    stop renting chick flicks and go back to doing what is natural, not what you think will make you a better man bc you saw it on some movie.
     
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    Personally I stick with only having sex with someone I am in a committed, loving relationship with. Works well for me.
     
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    Longest I went was like 8 months. It sucked, but after the first few months I don't think I really cared. :mamoru: Never again.
     
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    Well I'm not really looking to settle down with anyone right now or to date anyone. I just realized that for the past 7 months I've put so much effort into laid for whatever reason and yet not that long ago I was kind of a prude.
     
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    I always have an excuse to not be in a relationship and then I use that as an excuse to go hit on drunk girls.
     
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    7 months ago I was too busy with my job to notice until I realized it had been a year. :o
     
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    It's going to be difficult to find a good match for me. I might not ever have sex again. But I feel 100 times better when I'm free from this obsession
     

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