I'm supposed to go out on a date tomorrow, but...

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  1. Minkish

    Minkish Tomorrow's as close as yesterday

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    I met this girl online. The pictures I saw made her look really quite attractive, so I decide what the hell and I go for it. We set up a coffee date for tomorrow.
    As we're talking she says something to like, "fat chicks need loving to, and thats why im so glad you want to meet me."
    To which I reply, "well you really don't look fat from your pictures"
    "well I am."

    So I imediately make a myspace account so I can see her photos, and sure enough she isn't as skinny as I thought she was going to be.

    She seems pretty cool, but I frankly dont know if I want to go on the date anymore. You guys have any advice?
     
  2. soopa7fly

    soopa7fly stupid :06:

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    pictures can be deceiving both ways. go on the date and check it out. considering its just coffee, youre not committed to spend a long time there so if youre not into her you can just have your drink and go.
     
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    just go out and try to enjoy yourself.... say your goodbyes and let that be it...

    maybe go to a movie instead
     
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  5. BradUF

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    Ah hahaha. I am sorry that is just too funny. She didn't have anything on her site that let you know she was fat? Anyways, yeah do the movie thing instead and tell her you have work or something beforehand so you can take off in a hurry.

    How much weight did the normal pics add to her from what weight you thought?
     
  6. Minkish

    Minkish Tomorrow's as close as yesterday

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    Well, here's the original ones that I saw

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    and here's one of the myspace pics

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    eh could go either way

    on one hand you can never go wrong with going outside your comfort zone, meeting someone new, and actually doing something besides sitting at your computer

    on the other hand if you know you won't do anything more with her you're really not making it any better for her by giving her any false impressions

    obviously she doesn't get many dates, so she has some emotional investment in this meeting

    it's going to suck for her when you don't meet up again

    your call
     
  8. BradUF

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    WoW, she looks hot in the first two picks. Honestly, in the last two picks she is not that fat and maybe when she is all dressed for her date she might look pretty hot. Hard to say until you meet her in person.
     
  9. Minkish

    Minkish Tomorrow's as close as yesterday

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    yea, with any luck it won't be as bad as I think it is. She has a cute face, and those first two pictures of her make her pretty hot, which is why I wanted to meet up in the first place. who knows :hs:
     
  10. radfad88

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    *shrugs* i dont think she's bad-looking at all... to be honest, she's no bigger than the average american girl, so i definitely wouldn't call her "fat".

    the fact that she called herself fat kind of makes me wonder about her self esteem/self image...
     
  11. Emfuser

    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    Aw man, you got Myspace angled. :mamoru: :hs:
     
  12. Minkish

    Minkish Tomorrow's as close as yesterday

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    i no :wtc:
     
  13. BradUF

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    Dude, just go on the date and see what happens.
     
  14. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl: Owned.
     
  15. ElChupacabra

    ElChupacabra we should have fucking shotguns

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    Thick, possibly, but she doesn't look fat to me, and I like girls in the 100-110# range.
     
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    damn shes looks hawt in those first 2 pics :cool:
     
  17. DarkAngel19

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    Wow, she is super cute and looks like she has a great personality and a fantastic smile. Now, I'm a girl so I suppose I would be biased, but my god, how picky can you be if you are meeting girls on the internet?? Start buying supplies for the long winter of waiting for Catherine Zeta-Jones #2 to sign on...

    You can always date a girl with a banging body, but girls with genuinely beautiful faces are harder to find. You can always work with her on losing weight (eventually), but you can't do anything for a Butter face. My advice is to try the girl out with a little (and I stress little) extra weight and stop waiting for the model that "loves you for you".

    And Chupa, you must love short girls because only girls below 5'2" should be that weight:) My sister is 5'4" and is 102 and she is currently getting medical help for being underweight. Just saying, I consider myself somewhat attractive and I'm not 2% body fat!

    DA
     
  18. Esby

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    If you don't feel like going out with her after seeing the other pics, then don't... and don't feel bad or shallow about it either. Remember, she is the one that was deceitful here. I hate how some women "myspace angle" their photos and then get all bent out of shape when you finally realize the truth of how they look. They should be honest from the start.

    As for the statement made about "go out with her because she has a pretty face and then you can work with her to lose the weight..." BS! You have a 5% chance of that happening. The second you bring that up, prepare for the "you don't love me for who I am" speech. There aren't many women who are receptive to this - no matter how gently you approach the subject. Find someone who is what you want from the start - don't cross your fingers that they will change, because they wont.

    Just being honest here... I know I probably sound like a dick.
     
  19. Fucker

    Fucker out of the fast lane, bitches

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  21. ass_kicker32

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    I think she is cute. Id go :dunno:
     
  22. lauren

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    i'd say i was a luddite. you gonna come over and set it up for me?


    oh, and keep the date. what's the worst that could happen?
     
  23. cd7

    cd7 how troublesome

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl:

    that sucks, but you can still be a gentleman and take her out. i'd say make the best of it, learn from your experiences
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: I have no advice, just wanted to laugh. Go out and meet woman irl.
     
  25. Kinks

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    she's not fat
     

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