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  1. FBIkilledmygoat

    FBIkilledmygoat New Member

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    There's this guy that I like alot. To the point where I could actually see myself falling pretty hard for him eventually.
    Weirds me out because it's like...we almost complete each other's sentences and say what each other is thinking without realizing it.
    Sounds all stupid and cliche but, whatever. He's awesome.

    problem? Just broke up with a long term girlfriend. Likes another girl but, things are pretty fucked up on that part. Distance.

    The whole situation is really irritating and stupid because I constantly feel selfish for wanting more from him than he can give to me right now.

    I mean...he's seriously one of closest friends right now.


    I know none of is making any sense and I'm sorry I'm just really scatterbrained.

    I told him tonight that I decided that I didn't care anymore and that I was going to keep feeling the same way for him and that when he get's everything figured out in his life, he'll still see me there for him because I really don't want to have to give up on him.


    I feel really pathetic over the entire situation.
     
  2. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    Keep in mind that since you think he is so perfect for you right now...if you actually did get together with him, you'd probably find out that he wasn't as perfect as you thought.

    You have him majorly idealized in your head.
     
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    QueenOfHearts New Member

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    Don't take this as criticism but if he has a thing for a long distance girl just leave it be until he decides other wise with her.
    If you don't. You'll become her in his eyes. The next closest body he can get.
     
  4. FBIkilledmygoat

    FBIkilledmygoat New Member

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    yeah, that's what I'm afraid of
     
  5. FBIkilledmygoat

    FBIkilledmygoat New Member

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    well, I left a ton of details out mainly because I just...couldn't get everything straight in my head.

    I understand what you're saying though.

    Thanks for the imput
     
  6. SQLee

    SQLee The OTer That Cares™

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    Is there mutual attraction?
     
  7. Darketernal

    Darketernal Watch: Aria The Origination =)

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    You know if you truelly voiced your feelings and confessed to him that you loved him that's all you could do.

    I mean think about it, you love him, and the way you stated it he's not ready to be in a new relationship at this moment, from there it means that he needs time to recover, but you can't wait on that, keep on living your life and keep on dating other guys, maby when he is ready over a year or so you could get a chance to get to be with him, maby you can validate wether you both love eachother or wether its just one sided love. :hs:
     
  8. FBIkilledmygoat

    FBIkilledmygoat New Member

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    yeah, for sure
     
  9. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Sounds like you've done what you could. Sometimes people just need time to get to a point where they are ready to handle a relationship like that.
     
  10. Spanky

    Spanky I has a Orb

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    :hs: just give it time
     
  11. Jack Horner

    Jack Horner Guest

    This sounds like a twilight zone version of what happened to me...
     
  12. GregFarz78

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    :wavey:

    Shouldn't have told him that you'll be there waiting till he gets everything figured out, now he'll feel like he always has a backup plan..all the challenge of "the chase" is now gone :hs:
     

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