SRS I'm really into this "slutty" girl.

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  1. Madeinchinamic

    Madeinchinamic New Member

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    Well there's this girl at my school. She's always touching me and whatever. She has a perfect personality, at least to me. Except for her "ways". She's slutty, and has a bad rep. But she treats me the best, and not just sexually. She's great to hang out with. The thing is, I'm an extremely jealous person and other guys always be trippin' and trying to grope her. And after a while she easily caves in. I've talked to her about this, and she agreed to stop. I would like to ask her out. But I know for a fact that she hurt a lot of other guys in the past. And I'm afraid that I'll just be a nother one. Should I go for it? or stay away?
     
  2. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Troll thread. Nice try.

    kthxbye. :hsugh:
     
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    Why would she give up all the attention from the other guys just for you? Especially if she knows your the jealous type?

    Dude, seriously, why do you even have to ask this question? You said it yourself, she's slutty and has hurt a bunch of guys in the past.

    It's not worth it at all. Find a decent girl.
     
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    There's a girl. You like her. She likes you. What's the problem, again?

    Oh wait, you don't like what she does, or how she is? And you're already somewhat jealous of a girl that's not even yours?

    So then...haven't you answered your own question.
     
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    haha, i laughed at that and thought the same thing.
     
  7. krott5333

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    hes lives in Philly.



    and what grade are you in? she said she'll stop? a slut is a slut..sure, they eventually grow out of it, but she wont stop, despite what she says
     
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    tag it and bag it. then move on with your life.
     
  9. Madeinchinamic

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    Thanks krott. it seems you are the only one who notices that Im from Philly. Anyway uh. Im a senior.
     
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    I'm in the same situation. if you mean anything to her, shell stop...for now start innocently calling her late at night as a way to check up on her...but eventually your going to have to ask her to be exclusive :noes:


    but i say go for it... she has to change her ways eventually or become an old spinster
     
  11. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    if you can get a good lay, then go for it. dont expect to be able to change her.
     
  12. cvgwpg

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    Well, based on what you said... I don't think she will change. It's human nature to some degree. Some people at that age are figuring themselves out... then again, I know people in their 30's that are still figuring themselves out and they are in and out of relationships all the time. In the end, they are unhappy people.

    In this case, I would say its not worth it. Move on.
     
  13. Genghis.Tron

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    Been there already. I was used as a tool to boost her ego just as where other guys she hooked up with. Save yourself some pain and get to another girl, there are plenty.
     
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    Ah. Mixed opinions. I do not know then... I shouldn't just focus on one girl. I've been with a lot of girls before, just I never experienced such an attraction. Or i can just move on, which I already have been trying to do. It's really hard. You sit there at night, you want to do something that involves her, (i don't mean sex) but it's just that you're not with her.

    EDIT*This situation kind of reminds me of Brandy from Forest Gump.



    I used to be just like her.. I changed because my past girlfriend. And even after we broke up, I still saw it the right way to remain sober. And to not be a whore. I was changed, and I think maybe, she can too.
     
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    You can change yourself but you can't change other people. If you want her to change, isn't that because she isn't what you looking for ?
     
  16. Jimeigh

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    A+
     
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    i fell in love with the "sluty girl", lasted 3 years, until she wanted to go back on the random dick again....i said go for it, but watch out and be careful, don't listen to the advice of other people and DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.
     
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    From Philly or not, there's much to be said about proper English. :eek4:
     
  20. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Don't count on it. Sluts are for fucking, not for relationships. You shouldn't be naive enough to think that she'll give it all up for you. It sounds like she is pretty dumb and just lets guys use her because she's desperate for attention. Do you really want a girl that can't even stand up for herself and tell guys she doesn't want them groping her? :ugh:
     
  21. Falconer

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    She's giving you attention cuz she likes you for whatever reason. Don't give in and she'll want you like 42987 times more. You already know this girl won't make a good gf, so maybe after a while you can bang her, but don't get any feelings for her.
     
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    Great advice.
    Besides, say ya'll do get together, she "changes" b/c you want her to. Is it really a permanent change if she's only doing it for you? She has to want to change, (God, that sounds so cliche, but I think its true) if she doesnt really want to behave differently, she wont and will eventually will go back to her old ways, and probably hurt you in the process. Its hard to see someone you like do this...but you cant 'save' everyone.
     
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    You can't make a ho into a housewife.

    People don't fundamentally change over time (unless they want to, but you can't rely on that happening because typically it doesn't).

    Conclusion? You could possibly bang her, but the odds are against a successful relationship with her.

    /thread.
     
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    hit it and quit it.
     

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