I'm just a coward...

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  1. Doflamingo

    Doflamingo Freedom is not enough.

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    It goes like this: I've been with my SO for nearly a year now and in love, that is until recently when I've started developing feelings for a girl in my class (who I believe is feeling the same way). My heart tells me to break it off with the SO - as it would not be fair to her otherwise - and go for the girl in my class, problem is I'm afraid of being left alone, as the SO's my first serious relationship in years, not to mention I see the girl in my class every day and rejection could be disasterous.

    I'm 23 and terrified. God damn it.
     
  2. giz

    giz Active Member

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    sounds like you know what you should do
     
  3. Kyoko

    Kyoko New Member

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    Why are you dragging your SO through the muck that is your life with you? Oh right, because you're a dickless, selfish shit. People like you deserve to be alone and should never be allowed to procreate.
     
  4. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    thats a huge problem you have there :hsugh:



    sounds like you already solved it too
     
  5. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Maybe you deserve to be alone :dunno:
     
  6. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    So stop being a pussy and leave your girlfriend, ass.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You're pathetic.

    Break up with your gf, for her sake, try to date the classmate, then don't crawl back crying when the girl from class blows up in your face.
     
  8. Doflamingo

    Doflamingo Freedom is not enough.

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    Hah, reading you guys' replies is like reading the thoughts in my head. Things are much clearer when they're written in front of you, for better or worse.

    Thanks.
     
  9. VA197

    VA197 New Member

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    The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.

    Your SO deserves better.
     
  10. Socrates

    Socrates New Member

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    Jesus you guys are judgemental and harsh, lol.

    Break it off with her!
     
  11. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    :rofl:

    Damn the people here are fucking harsh and judgmental. Christ.
     
  12. Toxica

    Toxica New Member

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    I don't think you should drag your gf along just for the sake of not being alone. You're just wasting her time. If you were in love with her then you wouldn't be talking to this other girl and thinking about leaving your gf. So I do think you should break it off with her, whether you decide to go for this other girl or not, for her sake.
     
  13. giapia

    giapia Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you re

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    word. would have never let yourself get into that situation in the first place.
     
  14. solarsrt4

    solarsrt4 New Member

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    You've been around far longer than i have and you're just coming to that conclusion? :rofl:
     
  15. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    Well, it HAS gotten worse over time. You used to have *some* supportive people here back in the day. It's like all the good people moved on and what we are left with is a bunch of insecure college kids. :rofl:
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    True, most people move on after 25 :mamoru:
     
  17. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    you are a pussy. if you can't be happy being single and on your own then you have dependency issues, and your relationships will never last because your neediness will suck the energy out of your partner.

    you're not in love with your SO either, you're looking elsewhere. so wipe that idea out of your head.
     

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