About a month ago I met a girl at the bar and we hung out afterwards that night. Then last week I ran into her at the club and we had a blast dancing all night. Last night we hung out mini-golfing and then just lying on the beach talking. First off nothing physical has happened. Problem is she has a boyfriend of 4 years. The way she talks about him he is a jerk and doesn't treat her like she DESERVES to be treated. She said they were engaged last year but she broke up with him and then they got back together. She still has the ring but doesn't wear it. When she talks about him it doesn't sound like her heart is there at all. I want her to leave him, not even to go out with me, just because she deserves to be treated better. She is without a doubt the nicest person I have ever met on earth (maybe that's why she doesn't ditch the loser?). How can I help her realize she deserves a lot better? P.S. Life's not fair that assholes get the best girls.