LGBT I'm here I'm Queer And... NOW I'M OUT!!!

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by RyRy, Jul 13, 2005.

  1. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    :wiggle: One of the best experiences of my live, even though it was somewhat forced. Will write more tomorrow morning... my mom's taking me to McDonalds now!!!




    And yes I'm serious! :mamoru: :greddy: :rofl:
     
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    you werent out before? CONGRATS!!! im going through the process now.. kinda slow =(

    :love:
     
  3. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    All it took me was my mom with a baseball bat and my brother in law the sheriff going "we know the truth just tell your mom" :rofl:



    I'm not joking :ugh:
     
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  4. Wolf

    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    My dad thinks I am. :hs:
    Went to their place for dinner a couple weeks ago and mentioned that I'd been going up to SF to a bar with some friends.
    Dad: Is it a gay bar?
    Me: :rolleyes: no dad, it's not a gay bar.
     
  5. RenaultFreak

    RenaultFreak OMG

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    last time I got something like that from my dad I said "it's takes a queer to recognise another queer...interesting huh? :hsugh: "
     
  6. Wolf

    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    :hsugh: well.... I HAVE been going to a gay bar, but the one in SF I was talking about isn't. :mamoru:
     
  7. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Congratulations!!!!

    Isn't it a wonderful feeling of relief not to pretend anymore????

    :hug:
     
  8. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    Well dad got home about 8am... he doesn't know unless mom told him. :noes: I'd have to say the funniest reactions have came from my 13 almost 14 year old nephew. First it was "Yes your officialy my big gay uncle" then "dude will you go down that isle with me and help me pick out the right stuff... I've been dropping hints to mom and dad but I think they think Im joking plus we all know your types better with this kinda shit" (face wash, scrub, shaving stuff) then "dude your still going to help me with cars and hittin on chicks right?" :rofl: His sisters response was pretty much "Yes hun I'll be your fag hag... wait I've been that since I was 13!"

    My mom keeps asking all these questions like what made me gay, why i feel bad about being gay, why I never told her, etc. And I'm like :ugh: I don't feel like talking about all this right now. Anywhos I gotta go take a shower and get ready to go out to lunch! :wiggle:
     
  9. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    I give you credit, Im only 50% the way there.
     
  10. Team503

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    Congrats! It's the most liberating thing in the world. Doesn't always make it easy, but to have lived a lie for so long, and finally be free of it..
     
  11. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    Actually no because there's only 6-7,000 people in the county and a whole bunch of people found out everything that was going on. So like today I wore this pair of Polo jeans, leather thongs, a gay looking leather belt, and a cute / smart ass t-shirt and I went up town to the bank and everyone was looking at me like :eek3: thats :greddy: so I came home and changed :noes: :rofl:
     
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    this has been a great thread so far! The comments made... :rofl: @ wolf and at renault....

    Your nephews remarks are priceless too!
     
  13. NFS7

    NFS7 Shit, it burns!

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    LOL damn must feel like a load off

    (no pun intended) :o
     
  14. RyRy

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    He's taking it waaay better then I ever imagined he would. He dispises his sisters ex b/f who is gay. But then again he's also not his big gay uncle either :rofl:
     
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    MrFaldyn MrFaldyn

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    I'm not gay but i always act gay around my dad because he hates it :mamoru:
     
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    I admit it did until today. I think I already wrote about my trip up town today and it seemed like everyone was going :eek3: :ugh: :eek3: And now the ex will barely talk to me and will only do it via text messaging. All I want is to hear is voice and all would be good for a few hours, possibly until tomorrow. :wtc: Then I have this F-ing Public Speaking test in like 40 minutes and I haven't even had an hour to study for it because of all this shit. I would skip it but I haven't been to class fuck since like June 30th because we didnt have school on the 4th, there was a death of a family friend so I had visitation on the 6th, and the 11th I was too still to shook-up/depressed/a balling mess to go to class. This is going to be good on the ol grade :wtc:
     
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    Congrats on coming out. Mine was a non-event - was living out of town, flew in, sat the parents down, let them know I was gay and they had a choice to accept it and me, or sorry my life will continue on with no guarantees of me in it. 30 minutes later I went and had a nap, came out and they never spoke of it.

    Father made a decision to accept it, and we did ok - Mother still hasn't and we have virtually no relationship to speak of. She lives her life, I live mine. Absolutely no regrets though - God made me this way, happy to live as he intended.
     
  18. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Yeah, it's a rollercoaster of emotions... but still... it's a great thing...
     
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    RedGoober4Life New Member

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    I regret telling some people, I must admit. But it's the best thing I have done for myself, none the less. :)
     
  20. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    how long have you been out of the closet?

    why do you regret it?
     
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    Ivy Mike New Member

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    RyRy, the next time your mom asks you what made you gay, just tell her "you did silly!"
    :mamoru:
     
  22. RyRy

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    Well I cried all the way to school because he refused to call me, and all I wanted to do was hear his voice. I finally quit as I pulled on campus but I got to the classroom and lost it again so I missed the test. So I get home and his boss is at his house for awhile then goes to one of his co workers house then his boss starts following me around for awhile then disappeared. This is when he stopped talking to me. I just wish he would tell me whats going on:wtc: I wish I would have been able to come out on my terms and when I was ready to not when everyone demanded it.
     
  23. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    First love can be difficult...

    I've been where you are...

    I recommend focusing on yourself for a bit (in a constructive way, not in this "my life is shit" way). Work on making yourself happy... because if you're happy, you'll find that you will be surrounded by other happy people...
     
  24. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    ...nice. :bigthumb:
     

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