SRS Im going out tonight, and would like to try get over my shyness.

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  1. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    I am going out in a different city tonight, to a couple bars, clubs, etc. I would like to try and approach a few girls, to try and help myself get over my shyness. I figure it might be easier since i KNOW i wont ever see these girls again. but i dont know how to strike up a conversation without coming off as a weirdo or anything. help??
     
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    Shiva Chaos i see boobies!

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    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    Shiva Chaos i see boobies!

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    Crush Epidural hematoma up in this bitch

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    It sounds bad, but get a few drinks in you. This will help you get over your shyness initially, once the drinks wear off, you will already be on a roll.
     
  6. SovietRussia

    SovietRussia What? You pooped in the refrigerator? OT Supporter

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    i know this already, but i dont know what to say. :o
     
  7. egnaro

    egnaro im the inverse of that orange thing

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    You know all that stuff about saying how you should just act yourself and try to be natural.

    WELL THATS FUCKING BULLSHIT.

    If acting yourself didn't work before, why the hell would it work now?

    But i'm not suggesting you make up stuff about how you tame land sea lions, instead just try a few things like a quick comment (doesn't neccesarily have to be a good comment) hell, if you feel really ballzy, one thing you can do is just throw in the cheesiest pickup line you can think of (If you don't classify it as a joke after prepare for burnage).
    If you dont have the balls for that, put it in quotes:
    "Hey, some guy i know told me a pick up line and he said it works wonders, so it goes like this "<Pick up line here>". What do you think of it?"

    All in all, IN THIS CASE you dont want a "Hey, hows it going." cause its fucking lame, and chances are you will be stuck there and end up with boring shit like facts. Get in there, Get conversation, Be as outrages as you want and make it fun. Remember, you are just talking, not looking for sex (though if it comes, that's an added incentive right there)
     
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    http://www.bristollair.com/outergame/routines/openers/

    Since you are just trying to get over the fear of approaching, memorize an opener and USE IT. Don't bail out if things get stale after, do your best to plow through. If you do 20 approaches, you should feel pretty good about yourself and be well on your way to getting over approach anxiety. Personally, I used the G-string opener when I was learning to approach.

    Remember, an opener is only used to OPEN A CONVERSATION.
     
  9. DiggityDogg

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    SovietRussia, I'm going to save your life here. Go to www.friendzoned.com

    Not only is there advice and help there, but there are also articles and links to some very good sites that can help you not only with your pick up, but with keeping a girl, and building social skills and self respect. Go there ASAP, bookmark it, and refer back to it all of the time to help build your social abilities.
     

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