I'm falling for my fb, but simultaneously falling in love all over again with my gf

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  1. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    For starters, this doesn't mean I haven't loved my gf for the roughly 2 years we've been together, it just means I'm realizing why I love her so much in the first place.

    The fb is a 21 y/o college student that I've been seeing for about 5 months now. She's an amazing girl, and we have a great time whenever we hang out. One of the best things about her is that she isn't a rush to tie me down in a relationship like my other fb, or isn't on my ass constantly about calling her or hanging out with her.

    Lately, the smallest aspects of my relationship with the gf have made me realize why I love her so much. Watching her fall asleep at night, her asking me to spoon, the smell of her hair, her smile, her laugh, the way she looks at me, our kisses, our hugs, the small considerate things she does for me, its all making me melt like a little girl whenever we're together :o

    The interesting part is that they're exact opposites. The 21 y/o is a free-spirited party girl that does everything by the seat of her pants; the gf is a tough-ass over ambitious narcissitic law student who plans everything to a tee.

    This is the first time I've ever felt this way :hs:
     
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    put it in your diary
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    You're getting the best of both worlds!

    How couldn't you be happy?!

    On a more serious note, what was the point of the post? Not being mean, at all. Seems as if you have a great relationship with your GF and are recently starting to appreciate it more and more. Does this lead to an end with the party girl?

    Or do you really want to just have the best of both worlds?
     
  4. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    lol
     
  5. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Thats what I'm trying to figure out lol

    There is no real point, I just wanted to vent and get some insight from Vag Crew :o
     
  6. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Sounds like you need a third girl to help you figure it all out.
     
  7. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    There is a 3rd one, she's 19 and ultra-clingy. Hence the part of my post where I said the 21 y/o "isn't in a rush to tie me down in a relationship like my other fb"
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    FB = Fuck Buddy right?

    Leave it at that. If you really are starting to enjoy your real 'GF', drop the rest before it's to late. Sooner than later you're going to get attached to a FB and it's going to be even harder to choose.

    Or worse, your GF is going to find out.
     
  9. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    God damn, I was just kidding. :bowrofl: When was the last time you tried just dating one woman?
     
  10. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    I'm already attached :o

    My gf will never find out though
     
  11. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    The put it in your diary is the reply of the year!! Lol

    Yeah what are you planning to do? Keep your current situation going or your going to chose one girl. If I were you it seems like you were unsure and unhappy with your gf that's why you ventured off to mess with other girls. But now you realize how great your gf is.

    I would say a decision needs to be made now before your gf finds out what your doing. It seems like you really like your gf and should try to make it work with her.

    But do not break up with her to try to get with the fb. By the way you describe her she is not a relationship person, and you will not be able to change that.
     
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    Karma
     
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    So why haven't you told your gf about these fbs? Because she'll be pissed, right? That's just selfish.
     
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    Everyone is glad you feel this way... now think about how you would destroy their worlds if they found out you are living double lives... in your case triple lives.
     
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    sorry, i just can't read the rest of the post after you refer to her as "amazing"
     
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    :rofl:
     
  18. MCohen

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    his girlfriend isnt multi-vaginal
     
  20. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    I really couldn't give you a single answer to that. The gf is a great, but I need more, its not her, its just that I've been cheating for 10 years now and have done it to every girl I've dated, I don't want to stop yet.
     
  21. MCohen

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    They won't. Not to sound like a douche, but I've perfected this, I've been doing it since '98
     
  22. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    I wouldn't want to date a woman who is into poly relationships or swinging.
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    First off, I don't care how good you are, you aren't perfect.

    Second, just because you've gotten away with it this long doesn't mean you'll always get away with it. I've seen guys who played women for 30 years only to end up sad and alone when it all falls apart and then they have no real relationship skills to fall back on.
     
  24. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    I wouldn't want to be with a girl like that.
     
  25. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    I have more relationship skills than most people. I couldn't manage multiple relationships if I didn't.

    Also, your fear-mongering about ending up sad and alone doesn't work.
     

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