FRK I'm either losing interest or just getting frustrated

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  1. axio

    axio New Member

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    Ok, so I have a huge neck fetish :o It is pretty bad, most dudes notice T&A first, I notice necks... then T&A. I see a chick with a nice neck (which I have an impossible time explaining to people, I just know when a girl has a nice neck) and I get all worked up because I want to wrap my hands around it, fool around with it, etc.

    Anyway, over this last year out of the 6 girls I've slept with only one was down with me enjoying her neck and even that wasn't as far as I wanted to go with it (wouldn't even let me touch her neck with my hands :wtc: ) So, over the last month or so I seem to have completely lost interest in pursuing women because I get frustrated that I can't enjoy them the way I want to in bed. What is the point if I can't get everything I want out of it? :(
     
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    T-R-T New Member

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    she wont let you put your hand on her neck? dont ask, just do it.
     
  3. axio

    axio New Member

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    You sound like I haven't tried :wtc:
     
  4. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    like choke them or just feel it up?
     
  5. axio

    axio New Member

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    Both depending on the moment.

    And choking while you have the hands on the entire length of the neck is pointless and will be uncomfortable to her, more along the base of the neck to get her endorphins going.
     
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    this girl i had a fling with last summer use to tell me to choke her
     
  7. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    I've never had a problem wrapping a hand around a g/f's neck. ever.
     
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    FBIkilledmygoat New Member

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    I have a thing for necks :o

    the back of a guys' neck is a huge turn on for some reason
     
  9. axio

    axio New Member

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    Lucky :o
     
  10. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    seriously, the most prude seeming to he freakiest.

    I just reached up and grabbed hold.
     
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    Ummm.... no.

    If some guy reached out and started choking me, I would fucking bite his balls off and shove them deep into his eye sockets. But I guess touching the neck isn't so bad, but still. There always needs to be communication first.

    I know what you mean, though. God, I love a woman's neck. Especially the really long necks... mmm... and when a woman has her hair up in a tight bun with sexy school teacher glasses...
     
  12. axio

    axio New Member

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    It is like looking into a mirror :eek3:
     
  13. Pinksmartie

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    Mmm, I love having my neck kissed!

    My ex bf used to (lightly :o) choke me too :drool:
     
  14. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    100% true
     
  15. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    I thin kit's how you present the idea. You may be making it sound or seem a little TOO freaky. Try sensual massage, passing you hands over their entire body lightly, touching the neck more and more and you move over her. Little kisses and touches and then gradually get more intense. but you HAVE to communicate with them, "do you like when I touch you like this?"

    I'm VERY sensative in the neck/collarbone/shoulder area. I love it the attention and A LOT of women do too but i think they may be scared of the choking thing.. Just warm them to light touching first and see where it goes..
     
  16. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Yeah I wouldn't let just anyone touch my neck, to me it's a VERY intimate area and only people I trust get to touch me there.
     
  17. PocoDiablo

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    Ask before you start dating? :dunno:

    My SO's ... um ... Brazlian Wax Professional came to a bar with us the other night and naturally one thing turned to another (flirting) and she admits she likes the rough stuff.

    I think you just need to keep looking, maybe post an ad on Craigslist or AdultFriendFinder.com?
     
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    i didnt know he was talking about choking i thought he just meant touching. i dont see a problem with just reaching up and putting your hand around a girls neck (like as if you were going to choke her without actually choking her).
     
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    Yeah, ultimately it boils down to a trust and control thing. Having someone trust me to the point that they don't think I'll harm them :)
     
  20. mindro09

    mindro09 I don't like to beg, just give it to me!

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    I hate it when people touch the back of my neck. But when I am having sex it does not bother me at all :dunno:
     
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    Ah. I see what you mean now. ;) I just kinda got hung up when you said
    My bad :love: But I still think that before you get into any intimate thing like that, there needs to be some communication.
     
  22. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    that takes a while to build.. I think you are rushing it with these girls + the fact that you may be attracting/going after the wrong girls..
     

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