I'm cross dressing right now for a class

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  1. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I'll post about it when it's over later tonight.

    Guy dressed as girl for those who dont know.

    Sent from my JesusPhone
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    It was interesting not having dominance battles. My lover dressed as a guy for her section whereas I dressed as a girl. People would come and occasionally start shit with her - test her masculinity - but I was suddenly immune to all of that, in my role as a girl. It was actually a relief.

    I had a skirt, stockings, some makeup and a wig. I just pretended I was a really ugly girl. My lover and I cracked each other up all day. I could not find it within myself to kiss her. I don't know why. I was too uncomfortable.

    We had to stay in character. As part of the assignment, we couldn't tell people we were doing an assignment. I said "What are you talking about!?" and flipped my hair when people asked me what I was up to. She said, "What are you talkin about man. Are you questioning my masculinity?" when people asked what she was up to. Which is funny, because neither reaction is realistic. In retrospect we both performed those characteristics in the opposite sex that were least like our own, creating extremes.

    I'm not sure I'll ever do it again but it was definitely worth the experience.
     
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    hahaha, sounds funny :p
     
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    That sounds like a really cool assignment - and it sounds like you learned a lot. What kind of class was it for, or did you do this just for the experience?

    Pics of you as a girl?
     
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    pics of me as a girl! yes let me go post that on the internet right away :squint:

    it is an experimental class about female sexuality run by students. it probably won't last :hs:

    and i may post the 1 pic. i haven't seen what it looks like yet so it depends.
     
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    did you two keep the roles reversed that night in bed too??? :naughty:

    :rofl:
     
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    Sorry, sorry, I dont know what came over me - maybe I've been in reading the main forum too much.

    I really wasnt trying to be mean - just curious.

    why not? poorly run? not enough interest? I think having 'student run' classes sounds awesome...
     
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    IBhelikesitanddoesitonaregularbasis :rofl:
     
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    how crazy. that situation goes along the lines of those fun hypothetical questions that come up.

    what if you woke up one day and you were the opposite sex?
    what if you and your partner's gender's were reversed?

    those are weird to think about.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Afterwards I considered doing it once a week or once every two weeks with her.

    The best was when I was biking down the street in my outfit and passed within a foot of some guy who wasn't looking both ways.

    I don't know what he expected. Probably a car. When he got me in front of him he cried out in alarm. His friends across the street started guffawing.

    The only problem is that it makes interacting with my lover really, really weird.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Good fellowship and all that. The class is awesome but it's also disorganized. Traditions sometimes die when their creators graduate.
     
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    Jason -

    No, definitely not. It's something I would be "open" to rationally speaking... but actually being in the situation, it was really unpleasant. I was not open to it emotionally.

    That might, in part, be because of the way my lover enacts her role as a "man."

    Ladies reading this, before you get to the bottom of the post.

    Pretend you are roleplaying a guy.

    You're walking down the street. Strutting your stuff, perhaps. Remember, not too expressive with your face. A grin here or there. Also, not too much eye contact.

    Now, imagine you see a good looking broad. What do you do?

    .............

    How about: "Hey baby, nice walk you got there. Why don't you walk on over this way!"

    :hs:

    Seems to me like a girl's first attempt at being the guy is to be a disparaging, macho blowhard:

    "Good lookin', sugar dumplin'. Where you goin in that little number, baby boobs?"

    Or whatever.

    I think it's because a girl trying to roleplay a guy will accentuate the differences, creating an extreme. In reality, MOST guys don't really behave that way. MOST guys are either average, frustrated chumps or sexually appealing alpha males, or something inbetween. Very few are the kind of gorrilla-esque chest-thumping morons alluded to above.

    In reality, when I squeeze my lover's ass, it's because I love the way it feels in my hand.
    In my lover's parody of being a man, she would squeeze someone's ass as if conquering them.

    When she roleplayed her guy, she roleplayed a blowhard. Even if I would enjoy being the girl in the interaction, it wouldn't be with someone so unpleasant.
     
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    jesusphone?
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    A nickname for the iPhone. I often hear it used disparagingly, probably mocking the fanboi culture surrounding the iPhone's release. I figured I midas whale own the name rather than try to fight it.
     
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    lol, im interested in the pic if ur willing to put it up :)

    sounds like an interested experiment
     
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    man, sexuality is some cool shit.
     
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    That sounds ridiculously fun.

    Was this assignment for the whole class or an experiment you and your lover chose?

    I'm kinda curious about how others that might have done this thought of it.
     
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    The assignment was to choose a gender other than one's own to perform for the day.

    The class asserts that there are not just two genders, hence no such thing as an "opposite" gender. They gave us a list of all sorts of gender identities.

    However, I very much identify as a male, and my lover very much identifies as a female, so it was natural for us to swap.

    She and I are not in the same section of the class, btw.
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    yeah this is definitely a tittywop :run:
     
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    what :|

    do u mean TTIWWOP
     
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    This actually sounds like a great idea (I probably wouldn't do it though). The closest thing I've done to this sort of thing was dress up as a ninja and go to a mall to gauge people's reactions for interpersonal communication class.

    As far as the stereotyping goes: We all stereotype. What you mention is especially interesting because it shows just how nested the stereotypes of the opposite sex are within most of us, even if we don't realize it.
     
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    as far as what stereotyping goes? Did i mention stereotyping? Im tired and incoherent
     
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    The blowhard, dear.

    In that same area, my guess is that you did the same thing your lover did, your generalization of the hyperfeminine
     
  25. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Ah yes.

    I definitely went hyper-feminine in that way. I tried out some mannerisms in the mirror but they were way too subtle to pull off when I was not in front of the mirror, so lacking mirrors I just went very girly girl.

    Unrealistic for exactly the same reasons. A charicature.

    Then again, I've had years of practice being a guy, so I can't expect someone to suddenly match that in a day. Or vice versa.
     

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