im confused about the female orgasm

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  1. Capicu

    Capicu New Member

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    so this is the way it's been with me

    when girls orgasm i keep going and they love it more

    but with my new girl its weird

    when we fuck she'll tell me that she needs to cum and tells me to get out.

    then a minute later she wants to keep going

    when she orgasms, she screams and wants me to get out too

    she says that when she cums she needs to let it out

    same thing with orgasms

    wtf?

    what the hell is the difference between cumming and having an orgasm?

    why the fuck does she want me to pull out everytime she "cums"? wtf
     
  2. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    all girls are different. you could try convincing her that 'feeling her cum' feels GREAT. i dunno what to tell you. how old is she/you

    maybe she is used to guys finishing too quickly. or maybe it is genuinely uncomfortable for her.
     
  3. arseclown

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    seriously, just don't pull it out next time, she'll be all "wtf?!" then you just say "it felt so good feeling you cum" then the she won't say anything in the future, then you're golden.
     
  4. stormywaters

    stormywaters Tornadoes are just wind...

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    :confused: I don't want my guy to stop when I orgasm. Weird.
     
  5. Capicu

    Capicu New Member

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    ^ yea thats how its always been for me, girls don't want me to stop if anything they've wanted me to go at it harder.

    but this one she says that its like its stuck inside and she needs to let the cum out

    thats the first time i've heard that, wtf.

    i used to thing she was orgasming everytime she said she needed to cum but apparently theres a difference, i'm confused...
     
  6. MattThom01

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    could be a sensitivity thing
     
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    lauren Active Member

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    pulling out ruins it :o
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    What a weirdo. How old is she?
     
  9. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    maybe she is paranoid that you feeling her orgasm will put you over the edge, and she doesn't want you jizzing inside her?
     
  10. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    i think this is going to be an age issue I AM GUESSING shes prolly young or has a misconception about sex, im guessing she thinks that you cum when she does or something odd like that.
     
  11. Vanilla Tarantino

    Vanilla Tarantino OT Supporter

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    That was my first though.

    For example, I have no issues with some stimulation after I orgasm, but I know at least one friend who was telling me that his girl would try to play with him after he orgasmed and he would be like, "OMG DON'T TOUCH IT!!!!" It might be similar concept with her. There are some women that can achieve multiple orgasm easily, and others that become too sensative from orgasming. Perhaps she just cums so hard that's she flirting with that pleasure/pain barrier. :dunno:
     
  12. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :rofl:

    :hsugh:

    :rofl:
     
  13. Capicu

    Capicu New Member

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    i clarified it w/ her

    she gets really sensitive when she orgasms.

    fuck. i don't like to stop :(

    but other than that the sex is AMAZING!
     
  14. PurpleSplat

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    I have an idea... ask her why she wants you to pull out when she cums or has an orgasm, and try to get her to explain it to you... she's really the only one that can explain her behaviour...

    AFAIK, cumming is ejaculation and orgasm is the overall feeling, twitching, convulsing that occurs... they are two different feelings... I have actually had an orgasm w/out cumming before... and I was like.. whoa :eek5:
     
  15. PurpleSplat

    PurpleSplat Guest

    Well... try asking her if you could just stay in her and not move while she climaxes... she might go for it...
     
  16. Capicu

    Capicu New Member

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    she was going crazy today and i kept going while she was having an orgasm, i could feel her like contracting on me, and she squirted!!!

    she said thats never happened to her before and i've never done that to a girl before

    i feel like the man right now. omg, the bed was SOAKED.

    maybe thats why lol maybe it felt TOO good
     
  17. BlackIce72

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    I was going to say it sounds like she's on the verge of squirting and it feels uncomfortable.

    If you massage her lower stomache and relax her muscles it will feel more natural for her.

    Squirting feels weird for a lot of women, especially the first times.
     

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