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  1. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I "pulled out" when she had only been on birth control for 8 days. :ugh:

    I know that it's safer to cum inside her after 28 days of birth control than to use a condom without birth control; but to "pull out" after only 8 days ... there are no stats on that combo. It was a retarded choice.
     
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    well... if you pulled out you should be fine, no?

    better than not pulling out?
     
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    wait so you did or didnt pull out. i am confuesed..

    better safe than sorry..
     
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    I really don't understand what you're trying to say...

    Anyway, a condom is statistically safer than bc pills. As for pulling out when she's been on bc for 8 days was a good choice, since it's not effective till a month has passed
     
  5. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Pulling out is not safe. However, yes, I did "succesfully" pull out, but there is always the risk of precum.
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    BC pills taken every 24 hours for 28 days+ results in a probability of over 99.7%, which is far above perfect use with condoms, which can tear, slip, etc.
     
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    youll be fine. do you know what sort of start method she used? many types of bc are effective imediately when using the sunday start method.
     
  8. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    you know i have no idea. i will ask about this. what is the sunday start method btw?
     
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    starting the first pill on the sunday during your period.
     
  10. Foo Lyn Roo

    Foo Lyn Roo New Member

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    This is how "accidents" happen.
    You are probably okay.
    But honestly - if you dn't want a baby. does it hurt to double up?
    Just because she's on BC is no reason not to use a condom.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Here is the problem with that logic.

    At a risk of less than 5.0%, I readily have sex with condoms, but no birth control.
    At a risk of less than 0.3%, I refuse to have sex with birth control, but no condoms.

    If you rationally condemn birth control w/o condoms, you must really have a problem with condoms w/o birth control. Is that the case? Were you saying this based on thought or on a gut feeling?
     
  12. Epiphany

    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    Most birth controls say that you should not have intercourse for 2 weeks after beginning and you should use a backup. (This does not include pulling out.)
     
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    ortho tricyclen says you only need a backup for the first week. if that's the kind the girl is using then 8 days should be fine.
     
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    I think you should always use a condom unless you are sure you are in a monogomas relationship such as a proclaimed life partner or marriage.
    And even then if you can't fully trust them.

    There are other things to avoid other than pregnancy.
     
  15. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I'm as sure as I could ever be that I'm in a monogamous relationship.
     
  16. Diedemus

    Diedemus Google is my HMO

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    I am in a monogamous relationship, she is on bc, and has been for over a year, and we still use condoms, i prefer to have a backup in every situation.
     
  17. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Would you ever have sex with a condom and without birth control?
     
  18. Diedemus

    Diedemus Google is my HMO

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    yes, as stated in the other thread, we have been togeather 5 years, she has only been on bc for a little over a year, my backup was I out last her.
     
  19. Lou

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    The pill I was on was effective after 7 days ~ no babies here.
     

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