I'm 21 years old. I've had 2 long term relationships. Both girls have been set up with me by a 3rd party and I just kind of went with it. Both relationships went to hell after 6 months but that's another story. Anywho, I'm in college so of course there are at least 5 girls in every class that I want to get to know. I just have no clue how to talk to them. It's not really that I'm shy, I just think I lack confidence. I'm a reasonably good looking, smart guy who dresses well and smells nice, so I probably should have confidence, but I just can't get over it. I've been like this since high school. The whole thing kind of hit me as being a problem when I was on a cruise and I really had a good chance to talk to a woman I wanted. She was single and it was perfect timing. Instead I ended up just smiling at her like a retard, she lifted up her sunglasses and smiled back and I freaked the **** out, walked away and never saw her again. After that I swore I'd meet every girl that looked interesting but of course I've done nothing. This is something I want to solve before I graduate, because college kind of blows this way. Thanks for any ideas or encouragement.